Why do you rarely see black women dating white men?
This issue has boggled my mind for years. Why is it that you rarely see a black woman dating a white man? I always see black guys with white women. I’M NOT RACIST so don’t try to pull that crap on me. It’s just something I’m very interested in hearing others opinions about, especially black people.
While I have seen black women dating white guys, the number of black men dating white girls is easily 30x greater. and also why white men don’t like indian women?
Can’t wait to see the replies
Both black men and white men realise ( maybe subconsciously) that white children have the best start in life and are most likely to be successful. Mixed race children do better than black ones, too.
Black men can have more successful children if they marry a white woman than if they marry a black woman. White men can have less successful children if they marry black women than if they marry white women.
That may mean that black men and white men are actually equally racist, but it also explains why white men do not prefer black women.
However, it means that black women often do not find husbands at all, since a disproportionate number of black men are in prison or in gangs, black men who have married white women are also not available, and there are few decent black men around, so many black women who want families are forced to go it alone.
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maybe there worlds dont meet up
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Im not racist either…I am just not attracted to white people sexually
As friends…they are great…love them as people but I can’t even bring myself to become aroused at a white man
Personal preference…I dont want to go too deep into physical detail because I dont want to be called racist or anything…I’m not racist but people may not see things the way i see them and where understanding lacks…heated words lurk in the darkness
Also, we are different. A lot of the conversation that white men try to talk to me about is not interesting after a certain amount of time…I can hold a decent conversation but at the end of the get together…I’m leaving alone because by that time we have probably realized that we come from 2 completely different worlds.
Some white men may not be attracted to black women and vice versa so it just builds a gap there.
EDIT: since no one is answering I will go ahead and give my opinion on the physical
I am not attracted to the whole blond hair blue eyes thing…it seems so plain to me. I personally like a nose that is spread clean across the face and big bubble lips…something you rarely see in a white male
Also…just like there is a difference in the body shape of a white girl and black girl…its the same in the men…I am attracted to a black man’s body more than a white man’s. Of course there are exceptions…I’ve seen white girls with bangin bodies and white guys with wide noses, big lips and thick bodies…if they have what I am attracted to then I’m attracted to that specific white boy. Its just the majority dont
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there’s usually no attraction
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I don’t know why myself, but I do know that there are some very beautiful black women. I would have no fears about dating a black woman as long as I found her attractive. As far as I can see it seams like there is a stigma attached to white men dating black women, but I can’t think why.
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because black women like to stick with there own, but black men are a bit more evolved and don’t mind mixing it a bit more, as for the indian women they are generally controlled by there family’s and have there partners picked out when they are still children by there parents
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I think that performance and stamina play a part in this choice, a white friend dated a black girl for a few months and he was told he wasn’t really up to standard.
He was very relieved in a way because she had a spend, spend, spend attitude to life and his few months with her cost him thousands at the shops.
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Black guys don’t like to see da sisters dating white guys. Have had a couple of mates who dated black girls and they had the hardest time from the black guys. Yet I’ve had a black friend suggesting I date black women so I give up, I don’t understand nothing.
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Both black men and white men realise ( maybe subconsciously) that white children have the best start in life and are most likely to be successful. Mixed race children do better than black ones, too.
Black men can have more successful children if they marry a white woman than if they marry a black woman. White men can have less successful children if they marry black women than if they marry white women.
That may mean that black men and white men are actually equally racist, but it also explains why white men do not prefer black women.
However, it means that black women often do not find husbands at all, since a disproportionate number of black men are in prison or in gangs, black men who have married white women are also not available, and there are few decent black men around, so many black women who want families are forced to go it alone.
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My white brother’s wife is black. She is also beautiful, intelligent,warm & educated. My (incidentally white) husband’s first serious girlfriend when he was at Uni was Indian. Maybe it’s the circles we move in or the culture we live in – but I haven’t noticed the disparity you describe.
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