Why Are 42% Of Black Successful Women Are Single? [[ ABC News Nightline ]]
ABC News Nightline did a piece on why so many successful Black women are single, and if they need to lower their standards in regards to requirements for finding a mate.
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@kamay81 It’s not a …
@kamay81 It’s not a curse. It’s a personal decision. If BM decided to avoid getting married in their early 20s to focus on advanced degrees and high paying corporate jobs; then who’s to blame when they are single at 38? The black man is the blame? Riiiiiiight.
This is so true… …
This is so true…And it’s common to all successful African-descent women: in the US, in Europe, in Africa.
The Black Women Curse…I’m 29.
@ Incredible Stan: …
@ Incredible Stan: the comment from atlien1730 is from mklawanda. My house guest was still signed in. I like to stand behind all of my comments. Thats all.
My comments are …
My comments are dumb because YOU think so? Wow that is solid confirmation! Blue collar BM are always saying that BW are looking over them. That sounds like a complaint to me! I personally hear that all of the time in male/female discussions!
My facts are right- …
My facts are right- Black men and white women are the 2nd highest interracial combo. I did my homework. Now do yours!
these women are …
these women are gorgeous keep ya head up you’ll find that right man
I Say Step Up or …
I Say Step Up or Step Off, No I do not need you to make my life worthwhile, with you I can be more because that’s the way this system is set up, even God said it is not good to be alone, but he also said, Don’t be Unevenly Yoked.
When Blacks of all classes, levels, economic levels decides to upbraid, be proud of and encourage our Black Culture, and all we can offer these women is go to another race. die.
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“I GOT THE …
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“I GOT THE POWER”
The MORE women go UP ECONOMICALLY, the MORE they WILL NOT be able to FIND A MAN! THEY CAN NOT SEE A MAN! Their BLINDED!
When men get financially successful, the are able to get flocks of women. Which proves our genders are Not the same.
Now, do you see why men would educate their boys and take care of their girls?
In a way, this is good for them because they are NOT SUPPOSE TO LOOK FOR MEN. THE men are suppose to FIND THEM per bible.
Vurtuous Woman?
@ 0:45 “I GOT THE …
@ 0:45 “I GOT THE POWER!”
Now when she meet a man, ESP in the black community, the guys will say, “Hey… You are that court girl I saw on TV that can’t find a man? You got all that power and NO MAN?”
This is so sad. ABC is wrong for this.
She Defamed her own character. Willie did give curses, BG-curse.
NO MAN IN MORE THAN A DECADE! They are even using the right inferior phrases. MORE THAN A DECADE?
BM mad about their …
BM mad about their standards not meeting these women? Umm I think its these women who are the ones mad that the men don’t meet their standards…you do make a lot of dumb comments.
then there is …
then there is nothing we can do for these women. If they are only attracted to black men and can’t find the one they want then they can just keep on looking and looking and looking. While black men who have no problem dating outside their race are happy with their latina and white women
i bet your single …
i bet your single aren’t you
man that was the …
man that was the dumbest you said on this video. and also you are wrong..black men and white women are the highest interracial combo. get your facts right
Then I suggest for …
Then I suggest for these black women in this video or any other black women that can’t find a good black man go date somoene of another race. That is what black men do when they feel they can’t find a good black women
LOL. Well said.
LOL. Well said.
This”problem” will …
This”problem” will continue to climb because more BM are doing crime& getting locked up. Do you know that the number of new prisons that need to built is based on the drop out rate of black boys? That is beyond sad!
Whites in general …
Whites in general don’t bash each other like that period. Besides for every ghetto loud BW,there is a ghetto loud BM. Of course, you see more of the women because lots of those types of men are locked up or die off early.
If white women are …
If white women are such great catches, why are so many white men married to Asian women? BTW that mix is the largest interracial combo of them all. Also, the divorce rate is high because of Whites( it’s not enough married Blacks to push it up that high). Ok I’ll act like a white woman: I will abuse prescription meds,starve myself , be clueless about raising black kids and spend all of your $ trying to look like a sista. You happy?
None of those women …
None of those women said they wanted a White man. Only 4% of BW marry outside of their race! 11% of Bm do! That is nearly 3 times as much!
“independent” means …
“independent” means being able to financially support oneself. It has nothing to do with not wanting a mate. Many women(all races) watched their moms tolerate bad behavior from their dads& watched her stay because she did not work. Dependency is a bad place to be.Battered womens shelters are full of dependent women. It’s good to know if hubby goes, wifey and kids are gonna be alright! How can that be a bad thing for anyone?All men want their daughters that way but not their woman. WTF?
There was nothing …
There was nothing in that clip that implied that those ladies were selfish. Could it be that BM are mad about their standards because they can’t meet them. A man that is 6’8 has no problem with the chick that wants a tall man. Just like pretty women don’t complain than men don’t want ugly women. We only holler when the stone hits us! Simple human nature!
SO true! You can …
SO true! You can find a mate tomorrow if you want trash! You don’t see low income hoodrat Shaquittas saying they can’t find a mate. Their standards are in the toilet and they too are trashy. Therefore, a bum,thug,crack head,or baby spreader is not a problem for them. However, when you start expecting “little things”like jobs,clean urine & non existent criminal records,the pool shrinks.
Lots of men walked …
Lots of men walked out on their families during the depression because they could not take “grannys” nagging. Women look to men to provide and protect. When they fall short,the women are pissed. I don’t think that will ever change. Besides, men back in the day looked for work. They did not play video games & smoke weed all day while the woman slaved away!. When men are worthy of loyalty and support, they get it. Successful men have supportive mates. Scrubs and bums don’t !
Please don’t put …
Please don’t put religion in this. You don’t know who God favors. However, based on stats in regards to life expectancy,prison,unemployment,mental illness,poor health, one could easily say God does not favor BM. However, Blacks in general hold the trophys for most bad stats- so maybe God doesn’t favor any Blacks.Just food for thought!
BW were “given” …
BW were “given” success ? I must have been sleeping when they started giving that out! ( especially to Blacks). Poor me had to work for mine! Why didn’t someone tell me! Life would have been easier! Did someone “give” success to Obama, Jay Z , Berry Gordy, or Tyler Perry or is that just a luxury that only sistas get? Only 4 % of BW marry outside of their race. Therefore, it must be lots of sistas getting “stripped” of their gifts of success!