What do people think about white men and black women dating and marrying each other?
Just curious because I’m starting to see it a lot lately and I prefer dating white guys.
It’s not just a phase either because I actually want to end up married to a really handsome successful white guy.
I think it’s awesome that two people can get together and fall in-love regardless of race.
27 Responses to “What do people think about white men and black women dating and marrying each other?”
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Who cares… it’s 2009; why are you, among countless others, STILL trying to hype this up??
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Okay mama Suki dell you dees Tiffany, Suki no care who you screw in bed. You all Suki chilrin here on yahoo! If you like dee milk wid yo’ coffee din you go fo’ it.
suki like all man in coffee! oh yes!
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Some people hav e no problem with it,some people think it’s disgusting. Personally, I don’t care who someone dates/marries; if they’re happy, that’s all that matters.
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I don’t care. It doesn’t affect me nor my husband or children.
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You must be crazy! White men will chop you up in a million pieces and hide you in a block of cement or some crazy shyt!
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i wouldn’t do it…but i say, to each his own. in the end, no one else’s opinion matters besides your own. no such thing as a g/d sellout…you don’t belong to a whole race of people.
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Nothing wrong, I am in a relationship with a white guy.
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Good for them…
If two people find love, it should be celibrated… Something as silly as skin color shouldn’t stand in the way of that.
If you love someone that is all that matters…
If you fall in love with a dwarf, albino, Hawaiian, intersex, lesbian… It is no ones business but yours and your partners…
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Becs. If she hooks up with a black guy he will leave her alone to raise the kids by herself. Quit acting like black men are that much better spouses. Wait do they ever even become spouses since they are always running off?
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A lot? Lmao hardly. Any black women that goes with a white is a disgrace to the black race period! You have to be very ashamed with your people to sleep and live with those that have been against you from the beginning. I say its good if they go, we don’t need self hating race traitors!
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Anti-Interracial.
I don’t think about it. Marriage it a strange thing and if you look around you don’t see very many people who are in it for very long who still want to be in it.
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I think it’s awesome that two people can get together and fall in-love regardless of race.
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wife of 4 years is black
everyone is the same. we are all human right?
i say go for it.
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It’s sad that in 2009 we have to think about race when we chose our mates. If I was a white guy, I wouldn’t date you. I wouldn’t like to be treated as some kind of novelty. But yeah, no one cares who you date. It’s not a big deal like you think it is.
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I don’t really mind it, it doesn’t bother me as long as their happy. But what I hate about IR dating is when the person who doesn’t’ prefer their race puts down the whole race as a whole with stereotypes, I hate that but then again I don’t care. Actually I was just reading about it and they said that black women and white marriages actually last longer than white women and white male relationships. Who’d have thought.
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my only suggestion would be to marry a really handsome successful guy (or whatever his circumstances may be), and if he happens to be white, then so be it…if he happens to be any other race, then so be it. but dont go scouting for a white guy because the one that fits you best may be another race and you’ll skip right past him. – scouting for a man is lame anyway.
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Now,I’m a really big culture fan.I love African culture,European culture…but something does kind of bother me when people of different races have children. It takes away the importance of culture. Being part of a certain culture gives you a sense of pride,and it comes with traditions and customs that make that specific culture special.
Bi-racial children also have a certain degree of difficulty. Do they hang out with white people and get insulted by the African Americans? Do they hang out with African Americans and get outcast by white people?Does neither accept them? That sort of trouble also depends on where you live.Certain communities are more accepting than others.
Mixing can also create "unattractive" features.Mariah Carey turned out really beautiful,but others can end up looking sort of odd.
So for the sake of children,I think you should really think hard about it. If we’re not talking about kids,then I say whites,blacks,Hispanics can all date each other freely.
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My sister is married to a white guy and she’s currently expecting my niece in about 4 months, so I think it’s fine.
I prefer black men though.
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Well, if the girls hot & the guys me, then I think it’s great! If not, I don’t really care.
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Date whomever you want
SteveC
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BWWM couples are awesome, but they’re just like everyother relationship.
My boyfriend is white and he has friends who are a BWWM couple. My closest friends are with white men as well. I agree that such couples are increasing and it’s great because I like to see couples that look like me/bf.
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Black Babe with white dude
WHO CARES? are you going to be thinking of me while you’re making love to this man? If so, then.. I don’t care… im just a little.. just a little annoyed by black men DATING ugly fat NON BLACK girls, so if you don’t fall under this category then YOU’RE GOOD!
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all i can say is do what makes you happy……
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I know how you feel. As biracial (african american/Caucasian) woman i have only ever dated caucasian men and am currently in a dedicated 71/2 year relationship with a caucasian man.
While single (and even now) I never had the chance to even meet let alone date an African American or biracial man in my age range who i have anything in common with outside of ethnicity. I have a BFA, and am very into alternative rock/goth/punk music & culture, i also wear my hair natural & am into tattoos and other body modification, and am child-free by choice and will remain that way (i hate the idea of having kids) all of which in my experience are things which many african american men seem to dislike/hate allot or at best have very little interest in.
And while some responses imply that no one these days cares who anyone dates i think some other cruel ignorant responses make it clear that society has not yet reached that level of enlightenment. I don’t understand why some individuals view this as "evil self hate" or "being a traitor" that’s really an ignorant undereducated concept.
Especially considering the fact that there are women of African heritage like myself who couldn’t get an African American man to even look at them no matter what (not saying you are one), but many Caucasian & other men interested in my subculture get whiplash if i even make a half hearted attempt to look decent. African American men simply don’t share my mindset/interests and are not attracted to me and since the feeling is mutual 90% (im talking strictly personality/interest wise) of the time i feel no reason i should force myself to look for a needle in a haystack.
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hey there.. for me, color is nothing if two people are inlove.. One of the best example that i admired a lot is heide klum and seal. Just seeing him you can tell how they love each other and that’s what matters most.
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I’m sure this will sound pretty redundant, but I truly believe that skin color doesn’t matter. If you’re with someone who makes you happy, stay with that person. Don’t date this type of person or that type of person just to please other people. Those other people aren’t you and they aren’t living you’re life. So live for you and be responsible for your own happiness.
Of course, that’s just my opinion as a black woman who dates white men.
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White / Black, Black / White…beautiful…it’s harmony at work
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