25 Responses to “The Modern Day Matchmaker: Ep #16 – Don’t Bring Home A White Boy”
vford43 on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
Read the book, it … Read the book, it was excellent. It is about time Black Women start dating & marrying nonblackmen or just expand their options.
personalbeauty22 on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
Again, … Again, blakebarbiedoll and blake barbie is back is not the same person.
personalbeauty22 on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
@OneDegreeFromMe … @OneDegreeFromMe Ignore the troll blakebarbie is back Some weirdo with empty comments who felt the need to make a profile and then destroy it in a matter of five minutes. Those trolls see these videos on our profiles and get and want to act as if they have some information but their underlying cause is to bash black women. They have no life and they want to keep the black community in arms. Ignore them, and do not take them seriously. Life will catch up with them eventually.
OneDegreeFromMe on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
@BlakeBarbiesBack I … @BlakeBarbiesBack I understand you don’t agree w/ Karyn’s view but did you get any value from reading her book?
OneDegreeFromMe on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
@BlakeBarbiesBack … @BlakeBarbiesBack good point…i just researched that order (1st asian…) and you’re right. Thank you for sharing this!
BlakeBarbiesBack on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
@trinibagostylin … @trinibagostylin but why is it that in videos like this, the symptoms are always discussed, but never the root cause of it all? Perhaps someone should do a series on that.
BlakeBarbiesBack on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
@personalbeauty22 … @personalbeauty22 If you go and read the Willie Lynch letter you will find that it is repeatedly made clear that the woman is the key in breaking the people. Black women are very easily manipulated by emotion. As well, we already are stressed and overworked due to conditions we face under a system of racism-white supremacy. Our health suffers more & our resources are strained ( mean wealth $5-$100 for bw- $40K for white women?) This is to break you down & depress you & steer you toward WM.
BlakeBarbiesBack on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
@personalbeauty22 … @personalbeauty22 That is what you call propaganda & social engineering.. notice the effects of this propaganda
1. BM & BW argue as to who is to blame for this ( more division) the white supremacists have ALWAYS attempted to divide bm & bw to destroy the black family
2. Causes confusion- people get distracted, embarassed & feel more worthless. In addition to the degrading racism already aimed at black people
3. It entertains white people to see how bad those Ni99ers are doing
BW are TARGETS
BlakeBarbiesBack on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
@OneDegreeFromMe … @OneDegreeFromMe The book is not so great actually. I read it and she actually uses the fact that one of her grandparents was a white man who basically treated the black woman in his life like a concubine ( as an example that WM had families with BW) but then goes on to say that he had TWO families.. a black one and a white one- whom he kept separated in 2 different counties. Hardly sounded honorable to me. More like polygamy. And that’s just a bit of the silliness in it.
BlakeBarbiesBack on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
@ObiOkere The … @ObiOkere The majority of interracial relationships are not between black men and white women. Black and white relationships make up about `1% of all Irr if even that many. The majority of irr occur between white men and other non-white females, but not black females. The census shows that to be the least likely interracial pairing. I believe it’s `1.Asian w &wm 2. Hispanic w& wm 3. Other women & wm and lastly and in the fewest numbers Wm& BW.
BlakeBarbiesBack on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
@personalbeauty22 … @personalbeauty22 As well, what they don’t tell you is that when they compiled these false statistics of “single” black WOMEN.. and men, in that was included all black people from age 15 and up. Who would expect a CHILD to be married. They put out false information as propaganda to further their psychological warfare on black women & make them panic. The solution they always offer is “go get a white man” LOL. its so banal at this point.
personalbeauty22 on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
@OneDegreeFromMe … @OneDegreeFromMe Thank you!
Love the video btw
OneDegreeFromMe on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
@personalbeauty22 … @personalbeauty22 you’re on point! just b/c someone is single doesn’t mean they’re available and or interested.
personalbeauty22 on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
and what I find … and what I find that is funny is because there are tons and tons of white women single, but because we live in a racist white society – they try to hide this and we buy it. Why are ww the highest divorced women and the focus is on bw who may or may not want to be single? I mean, damn!
At 6:50 I found his question so interesting – it is always about what black women have to be doing. There are so many people single out there of all races but the media focuses on black women why???
personalbeauty22 on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
But I dont get why … But I dont get why if there are black women who dont want or need to be married have to be put in the club of those who do. It’s not fair to say that all black women who are single are single just cause they cant find men. That is not always true.
trinibagostylin on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
i think this is a … i think this is a great video. Ms. Folan articulated a lot of the issues faced by Black Americans seeking companionship. Thanks for another great one
nwaka82 on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
I like how this … I like how this discussion was conducted. It was very civil. This vid gets a thumbs up.
MissBrittneyofCourse on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
HAHAHAAHA i was not … HAHAHAAHA i was not prepared for the white guy in the bag! thank goodness i wasn’t watching this at work. love the videos. very insightful!
wildfusciaorchid on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
Well I’m not one of … Well I’m not one of those black women who don’t date outside her race. I think all men are beautiful and I don’t look at the color. People in this world need to learn to love.
IbnSheba on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
—-A nice calm … —-A nice calm discusion
rreese86 on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
I enjoyed watching … I enjoyed watching that! I have to say though, the whole “black women are screwed , are never getting married and need to be worried and do more, NOW!” conversation is becoming rather frustrating. Interesting but extremely frustrating. I’ve decided as a 23 year old I will continue to stay “informed” but I’ll try not to let it cloud my thoughts too much. Maybe that’s a cop out but it’s the way I’ve decided to proceed…
OneDegreeFromMe on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
@BRocka2006 thanks … @BRocka2006 thanks fam!
BRocka2006 on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
Love the video, PCB … Love the video, PCB! This is the type of thing that would draw up healthy debate.
~Bevon
OneDegreeFromMe on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
@ObiOkere good … @ObiOkere good observation. this is precisely the dilemma Karyn outlines in her book – very good read!
ObiOkere on
May 28th, 2010 4:17 pm
Interesting … Interesting interview…..What I don’t understand is this….if there is a ratio of 5 single black women for every black man, why is a majority of interracial relationships between black men and white women?
In this episode, Paul interviews author Karyn Langhorne Folan about her book “Don’t Bring Home a White Boy.”
Read the book, it …
Read the book, it was excellent. It is about time Black Women start dating & marrying nonblackmen or just expand their options.
Again, …
Again, blakebarbiedoll and blake barbie is back is not the same person.
@OneDegreeFromMe …
@OneDegreeFromMe Ignore the troll blakebarbie is back Some weirdo with empty comments who felt the need to make a profile and then destroy it in a matter of five minutes. Those trolls see these videos on our profiles and get and want to act as if they have some information but their underlying cause is to bash black women. They have no life and they want to keep the black community in arms. Ignore them, and do not take them seriously. Life will catch up with them eventually.
@BlakeBarbiesBack I …
@BlakeBarbiesBack I understand you don’t agree w/ Karyn’s view but did you get any value from reading her book?
@BlakeBarbiesBack …
@BlakeBarbiesBack good point…i just researched that order (1st asian…) and you’re right. Thank you for sharing this!
@trinibagostylin …
@trinibagostylin but why is it that in videos like this, the symptoms are always discussed, but never the root cause of it all? Perhaps someone should do a series on that.
@personalbeauty22 …
@personalbeauty22 If you go and read the Willie Lynch letter you will find that it is repeatedly made clear that the woman is the key in breaking the people. Black women are very easily manipulated by emotion. As well, we already are stressed and overworked due to conditions we face under a system of racism-white supremacy. Our health suffers more & our resources are strained ( mean wealth $5-$100 for bw- $40K for white women?) This is to break you down & depress you & steer you toward WM.
@personalbeauty22 …
@personalbeauty22 That is what you call propaganda & social engineering.. notice the effects of this propaganda
1. BM & BW argue as to who is to blame for this ( more division) the white supremacists have ALWAYS attempted to divide bm & bw to destroy the black family
2. Causes confusion- people get distracted, embarassed & feel more worthless. In addition to the degrading racism already aimed at black people
3. It entertains white people to see how bad those Ni99ers are doing
BW are TARGETS
@OneDegreeFromMe …
@OneDegreeFromMe The book is not so great actually. I read it and she actually uses the fact that one of her grandparents was a white man who basically treated the black woman in his life like a concubine ( as an example that WM had families with BW) but then goes on to say that he had TWO families.. a black one and a white one- whom he kept separated in 2 different counties. Hardly sounded honorable to me. More like polygamy. And that’s just a bit of the silliness in it.
@ObiOkere The …
@ObiOkere The majority of interracial relationships are not between black men and white women. Black and white relationships make up about `1% of all Irr if even that many. The majority of irr occur between white men and other non-white females, but not black females. The census shows that to be the least likely interracial pairing. I believe it’s `1.Asian w &wm 2. Hispanic w& wm 3. Other women & wm and lastly and in the fewest numbers Wm& BW.
@personalbeauty22 …
@personalbeauty22 As well, what they don’t tell you is that when they compiled these false statistics of “single” black WOMEN.. and men, in that was included all black people from age 15 and up. Who would expect a CHILD to be married. They put out false information as propaganda to further their psychological warfare on black women & make them panic. The solution they always offer is “go get a white man” LOL. its so banal at this point.
@OneDegreeFromMe …
@OneDegreeFromMe Thank you!
Love the video btw
@personalbeauty22 …
@personalbeauty22 you’re on point! just b/c someone is single doesn’t mean they’re available and or interested.
and what I find …
and what I find that is funny is because there are tons and tons of white women single, but because we live in a racist white society – they try to hide this and we buy it. Why are ww the highest divorced women and the focus is on bw who may or may not want to be single? I mean, damn!
At 6:50 I found his question so interesting – it is always about what black women have to be doing. There are so many people single out there of all races but the media focuses on black women why???
But I dont get why …
But I dont get why if there are black women who dont want or need to be married have to be put in the club of those who do. It’s not fair to say that all black women who are single are single just cause they cant find men. That is not always true.
i think this is a …
i think this is a great video. Ms. Folan articulated a lot of the issues faced by Black Americans seeking companionship. Thanks for another great one
I like how this …
I like how this discussion was conducted. It was very civil. This vid gets a thumbs up.
HAHAHAAHA i was not …
HAHAHAAHA i was not prepared for the white guy in the bag! thank goodness i wasn’t watching this at work. love the videos. very insightful!
Well I’m not one of …
Well I’m not one of those black women who don’t date outside her race. I think all men are beautiful and I don’t look at the color. People in this world need to learn to love.
—-A nice calm …
—-A nice calm discusion
I enjoyed watching …
I enjoyed watching that! I have to say though, the whole “black women are screwed , are never getting married and need to be worried and do more, NOW!” conversation is becoming rather frustrating. Interesting but extremely frustrating. I’ve decided as a 23 year old I will continue to stay “informed” but I’ll try not to let it cloud my thoughts too much. Maybe that’s a cop out but it’s the way I’ve decided to proceed…
@BRocka2006 thanks …
@BRocka2006 thanks fam!
Love the video, PCB …
Love the video, PCB! This is the type of thing that would draw up healthy debate.
~Bevon
@ObiOkere good …
@ObiOkere good observation. this is precisely the dilemma Karyn outlines in her book – very good read!
Interesting …
Interesting interview…..What I don’t understand is this….if there is a ratio of 5 single black women for every black man, why is a majority of interracial relationships between black men and white women?