Are women in the Bahamas and Jamaica more open to dating white guys than African American women are?
March 23, 2010 | 7 Comments
I personally think that black women in general have more to offer a man than the average white woman, most white women are flat chested and have no curves
it’s very hard for a white guy to get an African American woman to go out with him, they still hold slavery against us, the problem is, a huge portion of white females is unavailable to us as well, many white girls only date blacks
I really think race shouldn’t matter at the end of the day. Every woman is different. I personally like all types of guys, I think I’m starting to prefer White/Asian guys more. I don’t hold slavery against anyone. Let go let flow.
I have no problem with black men dating white women but?
March 23, 2010 | 3 Comments
The ones who do it to say "I’ve made it" (because white women are seen as the #1 women in this country, psh) or the ones who do it and say "I hate black women because (insert list of bad qualities any black woman they’ve ever met has)" I’m like, so you hate your mom?? What’s up with people thinking like this???? This goes for the black women who do it too but it’s mostly the men. I’ve also heard some black women say that often when the black man who is with a white woman sees them (they are attractive, smart, and nice black women) they stare like freaks like they’ve never seen a black woman like that! Yes, I’m speaking of only the black/white relationship that are like this. I know other people do it too.
White women have always been black men’s ideal woman. They are like trophies to them. Something to be won. I think the fascination has died down a bit though b/c during the 70s black men just went crazy about dating white girls and it was jungle fever madness. Black men who think this way have issues with their own selves. They are the same brothers who would diss a dark skinned black woman over a lighter one. Maybe these brothers just had some bad experiences with black women but one or even a few bad apples doesn’t spoil the bunch. Just throw the bad ones out and grab a good one. These men have made unfair generalizations. They don’t even know every black woman.
Why do you rarely see black women dating white men?
January 7, 2010 | 9 Comments
This issue has boggled my mind for years. Why is it that you rarely see a black woman dating a white man? I always see black guys with white women. I’M NOT RACIST so don’t try to pull that crap on me. It’s just something I’m very interested in hearing others opinions about, especially black people.
While I have seen black women dating white guys, the number of black men dating white girls is easily 30x greater. and also why white men don’t like indian women?
Can’t wait to see the replies
Both black men and white men realise ( maybe subconsciously) that white children have the best start in life and are most likely to be successful. Mixed race children do better than black ones, too.
Black men can have more successful children if they marry a white woman than if they marry a black woman. White men can have less successful children if they marry black women than if they marry white women.
That may mean that black men and white men are actually equally racist, but it also explains why white men do not prefer black women.
However, it means that black women often do not find husbands at all, since a disproportionate number of black men are in prison or in gangs, black men who have married white women are also not available, and there are few decent black men around, so many black women who want families are forced to go it alone.
Why do you think that society views black men dating white women differently than white men dating black women?
November 27, 2009 | 12 Comments
Personally, I think you love who you love and that’s it, but I am very curious as to what other people think about this… Thanks 
I have noticed the difference with black men / white women relationships and the way society treats them compared to black women / white men relationships.
In college almost every Black guy on campus (and there were only a handful of black students as it was a predominantly white college) dated a white girl. I would ask them why they were so into white girls and most would say us black girls were too loud, too demanding, wanting to be in charge of the relationship. everyone felt like black guy/white girl was okay but i tried dating a white guy and all the black students were very upset. they thought i was betraying them or something. but how was it right for the guys and not for me?
I think it’s more common to see black men with white women and people are more okay with that but I think we black women need to start upping our game. I’m not saying white men are better because we shouldn’t be dating race. i’m saying if you are finding what you need in another race go for it. i like all races! if i find what i need in a particular man i’m going for it and i can’t let society dictate what my needs are. i have to do for me. who cares who scrunches up their face…i don’t have time for that.
is it possible for an asian guy to date a white girl?
October 18, 2009 | 23 Comments
I see lots of Caucasian guys with asian girls but not Caucasian girls with asian guys. I think the white girls like to stick with their own ethnicity but the white guys date both asian and Caucasian. My question is, is it possible for an asian guy to date a white girl. I’m asian and i see that a lot and in my prospective, i don’t think its ever possible for me to date a white girl, but I’m just asking.
Well, I can tell you /one/ white girl who likes Asian guys: me! I’ve got a huge crush on a Vietnamese guy right now, and I’d pick an Asian over a white guy any day. It’s a personal preference, just how some girls only like blond guys or whatever. Sure, /some/ white girls are never gonna look at Asians that way, but that’s how it goes with /any/ race.
Here’s some advice: us girls LOVE guys who are confident and not afraid to approach us. So don’t just assume that a white girl isn’t interested in you–give it a shot! You might just be surprised. : )