Play Hard To Get And Land The Man Of Your Dreams
March 8, 2010 | 6 Comments
Play Hard To Get and Land the Man of Your Dreams
So little girls might have heard it before from their mothers, that back in their days that in order to get a man, women used to play hard to get. This is why growing up millions and millions of angst-ridden teenage girls promised themselves never to do this. After being bombarded by this maxim over and over again.
After all it is during this crazy time of their lives that teenagers believe that they know everything. They are also convinced that the world is secretly plotting against them. This is why they are made to wear braces, and have at least a dozen pimples on their faces.
It is only natural during this time that any adult supervision or guidance is rejected. On the top of the unwanted list are of course, the parents.
But as these little girls grow up and become women, they realize that growing up they might’ve made a bad decision or two. If they are really honest with themselves, they would admit to at least half a dozen. They also realize that if they only listened, they could have benefited from the wisdom given to them by their parents.
This is why now, they are open to the idea that maybe, just maybe there is some truth to the saying that, ” Mothers know best”. And one of the things that mothers know best about has to do with dating! Oh the horror!
So how do you actually go about playing hard to get? Here are some tips:
1. For starters, women should not make themselves too easily attainable. They should make men work for their attention. Guys love a challenge. This will also send them the message that you are not one of those women that can be easily be taken!
2. Every girl should have some mystery about her. This intrigues men, and keep them guessing. On the first date, don’t try to win their sympathy by relating to them the dramatic story of your childhood, followed by a run down of all the names of bad boyfriends who have scorned you in the past. This will not score you any brownie points. This will only scare men away.
On second thought, if you are having one of those horrific blind dates from hell, by all means, go on ahead and do this. Plus, don’t forget to sob in the end. This will be the clincher that will guarantee that there won’t be a second date, because chances are, by that time you would have already won the title of: the worst blind date of all time.
3. Those who are serious about playing hard to get should never make the first move. This is crucial! Allow men to think that you are offering them the privilege of your presence! They will treat you like a queen! and rightly so.
Once men find out that a woman is interested in them, their interest tend to wane. Unless of course they are already hooked, lined, and sinker by this time. It is your job to make these men fall head over heels for you!
4. Go on with your life as usual. Don’t leave everything behind at the drop of a hat simply because you have a new man in your life.
Continue to spend some time with your friends and family.
Women should give themselves some alone time to do you’re their own thing. This way, the guy would not think that they are the clingy type, and are extremely dependent. This will also give the guy the illusion that they are in control.
5. Don’t let him have his way all the time. If time and time again you get dragged to see a Vin Diesel movie that you don’t want to see, you should start a one woman revolt! Organize a picket line around his house, and let out your fiercest Amazon woman battle cry. Do this repeatedly until he finally gives in and agree to make Friday nights, a Keanu Reeves marathon stay at home movie night!
6. Go easy on the phone calls. Women should not call a guy constantly simply to tell him that they want to hear his voice!
7. Flirt a little but not too much. Just enough to let the guy know that he does have a chance with you. What’s more if he is really nice, you might consider going out with him.
When playing hard to get it is important for women to remember not to go overboard with their strategy. They should drop little hints here and there that implicitly deliver the message that they are interested in the guy, but will not easily be gotten!
After all playing hard to get is a means to an end. In the end you want to make sure you win the game by getting the guy of your dreams.
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Single moms please help! Need advice, tips etc dating a single mom for the first time?
March 2, 2010 | 2 Comments
just started seeing this girl a single mother of 1. I really like her but have never dated a single mother before. I am in need of a little guidance, advice or tips maybe how do i proceed into a relationship with her?
You need to remember that this baby/child is the most precious thing in her life, so, if you accept her child, she will accept you. There are some women that need/want a boyfriend so much they will do whatever the man wants even if it means neglecting the child. You don’t want one of those women. She has her plate full, I’m sure, with life (child, household, work/school, meal time, sickness, etc) so to enter into her life you need to fit into it not expect her to change to make you happy. Make it a point to include the child into your plans/dates, but have a date night w/o the child once in awhile so the bond between you guys grows strong. Good luck
What Women Should Know When Dating
October 27, 2009 | 20 Comments
What women should know when dating
Unlike before, when the total outcome or atmosphere of dating solely depends on the man, women of today have learned how to take part of the entire process. They have realized that in order to make most out on a date, they have their own “roles” to play. They are now more enthusiastic and open to the idea that if they want to have a successful date, they have to follow basic and general rules in datingespecially in first dates.
WHEN EVE GOES ON A DATE
Even the most confident women experience anxiety attacks when they go out on a date…what more to those who are not so confident about themselves? If a woman decided to go on dateespecially with the man she is interested withthere should be no space for self-doubt. Although being rejected can be a horrifying thought, women can never go wrong if they follow the simple rules on dating.
If you are up on a date, the first thing to consider is how to make the date itself enjoyable for the both of you. If he suggests something you cannot comfortable with, then offer him other alternatives. There’s no good in going on a date that you cannot enjoy yourself.
If you are too nervous and you think you’re not one of those women that are good conversationalists, make up for it by suggesting an activity that would keep you both preoccupied. This would take the pressure off on both parties and may lead to a more fluid conversation. (Tip: try to stay in tune with current events so the man will discover you’re not only pretty but smart as well.)
After breaking the ice, keep yourself in check. Make sure that you don’t go overboard by making nasty comments or by getting “too close” because this will turn him off. If you want to get a man’s attention, pay a lot more attention to him by listening to him rather than you talking.
Before leaving your house for a date, make sure that you leave your emotional baggage behind. Being emotional on a date over something will make a man feel you don’t need a lover but a psychologist or therapist.
Here are additional general rules on dating:
1.Always be gorgeous, decent, or at least presentable whatever your income is. Gorgeous women are one of the men’s guilty pleasures. Looking your best with that gorgeous hair, fancy clothes, and make-up can make you a head-turner anywhere.
2.Be discreet and mysterious. Especially on first dates, giving out too much pieces of information that are unnecessary will only turn him off. Remember, mysterious and enigmatic women stay on men’s minds compared to those who are not.
3.Know when less is more. Dates don’t have to take so much time as long as you keep the man interested. Lesser time might even pave the way for the second, third or fourth date because he would think that you need more time to know each other.
4.Keep that figure in check. Slim or fit women appeals to most men because it gives the impression that these women know how to take care of themselves. Taking a time off to workout in a fitness center or gym can be your investment in looking for your dream guy.
5.Time check. Remember, first impressions last that’s why you have to make sure that you are on time when you go out on a date.
6.Be interesting and interested. Although your date did not turn out to be your “dream guy,” be lady enough to stick until the end by keeping your sense of humor.
7.Even if you believe in gender equality, let the man pay the bills.
There you go, the most basic and effective rules in dating for women. If you think you did almost everything and still, the date did no turn out well, don’t sulk. Who knows, your next date will turn out your Mr. Right if you keep following these simple rules.
Nathalie Fiset
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