What kind of girl would date a guy who sells drugs in their neighborhood?
October 31, 2010 | 4 Comments
Hey guys, Im doing a paper for my woman studies class. I have to write girls dating drug dealers. I just wanted some good opinions about the kind of girls who date these guys. Like do you think their insecure, absence of a father, growing in a bad environment, greed, etc.
I started out thinking insecurity but I wanted some other opinions.
Thanks
low self esteem
Would you rather date the girl who thinks that’s she’s ugly or the girl who plays hard to get?
September 20, 2010 | 10 Comments
Would you rather date?
girl A= She has no confidence at all, low self esteem, she thinks that she’s super ugly and she thinks that she can’t get a boyfriend.
or
girl B= she has a lot of confidence, a very high self esteem, and she plays hard to get with you.
I would so go for girl A, I would give her confidence and show her that’s she’s beautiful. And what is your zodiac sign? Mine is Taurus
A, i’m good at getting loved ones confident and making them feel special.
too much confidence myt turn into arrogance, it turns me off, when it gets to love matters.
am scorpio
Guys, a question, would you rather date girl A or B?
August 30, 2010 | 6 Comments
Would you rather date?
girl A= She has no confidence at all, low self esteem, she thinks that she’s super ugly and she thinks that she can’t get a boyfriend.
or
girl B= she has a lot of confidence, a very high self esteem, and she plays hard to get with you.
I would so go for girl A, I would give her confidence and show her that’s she’s beautiful
DEFINITELY type A. These girls are most of the time very real and great to be with. They give the same respect and interest to you as you give to them. You can have a deep relationship with these type of girls, real love.
Type B girls usually are not very attractive to me. It is as if the whole world revolves around them, like they only like you because it makes them feel good you like them. Most of the time they are more interested in how they look with you as in who you are. I like a deep love relationship where I get respect for who I am as well. An equal relationship. I hate women who feel they need to be worshiped while they usually aren’t really that great in the first place.
How to pamper a girl on the first date???
July 25, 2010 | 10 Comments
I recently met a really nice girl on Craigslist and, after chatting with her for a while, we have decided to meet latter this week.
During our conversations, she revealed that very few of her previous boyfriends have never really attempted to satisfy her needs and that she was looking for a guy who would attempt to cater to both her emotional and physical needs.
During one of these conversations, I promised to pamper her and, while I’d try to do this for any girl who was nice enough to actually date me, she is definitely holding me to this promise.
I certainly intend to keep this promise but am not really as experienced as I should be dating girls who I don’t already know as a friend, and therefore know how to please.
I was wondering if any of you might have any suggestions on how to pamper a girl who I am just about to meet in person for the first time???
The more specific the suggestions the better.
Thank you in advance.
I would be very careful. The fact that she is holding you to "catering" to her needs, throws up a red flag. It’s very possible that after reading your messages to her, she knows that you are insecure and not overly self-confident (welcome to the club of insecurities and low self confidence).
It just makes me think that she is trying to manipulate you into thinking that she is doing you a favor because she "was nice enough to actually date" you.
You sound like a good, honest person. Being unsure of yourself or having low self esteem can make life difficult and lonely at times, but don’t sell out your happiness just to be with someone or anyone. You deserve better than that.
Have you ever told her what you expect of a date? Like you expect to be treated with respect and honesty?
I hope I’m wrong about her, but I saw myself in your question and hate to have you go through a painful relationship at the hands of a selfish person.
Take care and good luck and be willing to keep looking until you find the right person for you.
Karenpa
Jealousy and Dating Advice for Women
May 2, 2010 | 11 Comments
One of the most problematic issues related to dating is the excessive jealousy some men tend to show in their relationships. And jealousy is very difficult to spot from the first or second date. You can look at the guy and think he is funny, good looking, successful in life and in his career – but you can never detect jealousy right away.
Many men are very possessive and when you mix this with a lack of self confidence (mostly the fear of not loosing a woman to someone else), you will see the full extent of the negative effects of jealousy. Some men don’t believe that they actually deserve to be in a relationship with the woman, and they try to make her as dependent on them as possible.
While excessive jealousy can’t be spotted right away, there are certain signs that can tell you more about your date, especially if you start seeing each other more often. Some guys will probably offer to pick you up from work or school when you get out – this can be a nice gesture, but it can also be one of the first signs that they want complete control over your time and company. Other times, you may have a phone conversation with a male friend of yours – maybe a coworker, maybe an old friend.
If your date asks about him you can consider that a good thing – he is interested in your friends and entourage. However, if the conversation goes on and on about the male voice on your phone, chances are jealousy is involved. One of the most obvious signs of jealousy is when you tell your date that you spent a night out with a male friend and he starts an argument based on that. Any woman should have at least a few men as friends, and if your date is envious or jealous about any of them, chances are you are in for a rough ride if you continue the relationship.
Most guys with low self esteem will also develop jealousy problems. They feel like you can always find someone better, so they go out of their way to monopolize your time and interests. Nothing is enough for a jealous man when it comes to gaining his trust. Even your sincere love, your passion, your willingness to be by his side when he is going through rough times may not be enough for his peace of mind. This is why jealous men are one of the most negative dates you can experience.
Warning signals for jealous men – Here are a few things that can let you know if your date or partner is jealous:
He keeps track of all your friends and social encounters.
He tells you to dress more conservatively, especially when you are not going out together with him.
He insists on escorting you to the bakery, grocery store and other places similar to those.
He often shows up or calls during your business meetings, or any other occasions when you are in a distinct group (maybe a high school reunion or simply while hanging out with your girlfriends).
He starts an argument every time you mention one of your male friends or say something good about any other guy.
He lacks confidence and has low self esteem.
He snaps about minor details.
He makes communication difficult if he doesn’t like the topic.
Craig Rad
http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/jealousy-and-dating-advice-for-women-118859.html