What are some tips for dating a girl who is reserved in expressing emotions?
September 29, 2010 | 9 Comments
I’m starting to hang out with this girl and it’s obvious we get along with each other but I can’t quite figure out what her feelings are for me. Any tips or advice would be helpful!
Let her know that she can feel comfortable around you. Try not to ask too many questions that will put her on the spot. She may just need a little more time to get to know you better. Before you know it she’ll be holding your hand, kissing you, & running up to you excited to hug you. Just give her some time. Goodluck to the both of you!
Latina/Mexican girls, would you prefer dating African American or Indian Guy(from India)?? please!!?
May 22, 2010 | 3 Comments
Hey, I am 21 an Indian guy and i like one Latina girl. I am not saying that i am handsome but not bad looking either. My friend is African American. His girlfriend is Latina. And i know almost all our latina friends (girls). And almost all of them have crush on my friend. So i never had any courage to express my feelings to her.
So, please help me out!! SHOULD I TELL HER ABOUT MY FEELINGS "OR" SHOULD I NOT??
please!!
go ahead..thnx for 2 points
Help: Dating an African American Guy?
April 22, 2010 | 42 Comments
I’m dating an African American guy and he wants to get intimate, I am of course apprensive because of all the rumors about African American guys have rather large "thingys". I don’t want to hurt his feelings, but I don’t want it to hurt either. What should I do?
We’ve been dating for 15 months so I think I know him pretty well. Why is everyone assuming that I am some underaged Virgin, I never said that. I am well over 18 and I did have sex before, but that was 4 years ago.
As far as me not knowing his size, well I’ve seen an outline when we went surfing, and he wore board shorts, I don’t need to actually see it to know it is rather big.
it’s just a stereotype. You won’t know how big he really is until you see it. If it seems big then just take it slow. After a while, it will probably fit really nice.
Dating Tips- How To Date Someone With Kids
November 11, 2009 | 3 Comments
Dating as it is, is a delicate issue which needs to be handled with care. It becomes even more complicated when there are children involved. Many people think twice about dating someone who has children and many singles with children are slightly nervous in starting a new relationship. Dating a person with children could end in a very long-lasting relationship. However you have to tread very cautiously, taking care in every step so that the children are not hurt. Surely the presence of children do complicate matters, but it does not mean that the relationship is doomed.
When you meet the children of the person you are dating is the most critical factor in the relationship. It is not essential to meet the children on the first date. in fact, it is not advisable, as the future of the relationship is still uncertain at this stage. It is important though for the person to admit that he or she has children but you must give each other enough time, before you meet the kids.
While it is true that the children play an important role in your partner’s life, you need a lot of time to think whether you want to be part of this scene and you want to take up the role of a parental figure in the children’s lives. If you have dated your partner long enough and are serious about continuing the relationship, then it is prudent to meet the partner’s children and get to know them.
While you don’t wish to be rushed and pushed into meeting the children during the early phase of your relationship, it also not too wise to postpone the meeting till its too late. For instance, if you decide to meet the children after you have taken a decision to marry the partner, meeting the children at this stage only throws them off gear. They will feel quite helpless at this stage, of meeting a new parent. Not only is meeting the children important, but the timing has to be perfect for doing so.
After meeting the children, it is equally important for you to recognize and appreciate their feelings. While you are dating their parent, it is important to start building a relationship with them as well. This is sometimes difficult, as the children often reject the person who is trying to take the position of their natural parent. If the biological parent is absent due to death or divorce, the children can get particularly hurtful.
The most important thing in this is to re-assure children that you are not encroaching in their lives and taking the position of their natural parent in any way. The type of role that you are likely to take on, is something you need to discuss with your partner and the children. This way they also get to express their concerns and gives you an opportunity to clearly demarcate areas of discipline and decision making. Children would like to feel belonged in this whole process as if they have a control over matters. Making them feel comfortable and re-assured is important for long term relationship building.
After establishing a rapport with the children it is time once again to concentrate on your own relationship with your partner. Once the children have been brought to the relationship, it does not mean that you lose sight of your own life with your partner. Try and bring as much balance as possible between yourself, your partner and the children. Its important to spend as much time as possible with your partner like you did before the children came on the scene. This will help your own relationship with your partner grow and mature.
Undoubtedly, maintaining a dating relationship with someone with children is often complicated but following these tips may ease the situation. Firstly, ensure that your relationship with your partner has reached a mature stage before you meet the children. Or else they may be in for a shock, if you disappear. When you meet the children, take things easy and appreciate their feelings and understand their apprehensions. Try an not move fast, take leads from them. Once you have met the children, make sure that you continue to spend time with your partner as previously done. Following these suggestions will definitely make it smooth to build a relationship with someone with children.
Jennifer Flanders
http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/dating-tips-how-to-date-someone-with-kids-86141.html
How do I tell my parents I want to date this girl?
November 3, 2009 | 2 Comments
So there is a girl who is 1 grade above me. I am in 7th and she is in 8th. I really want to date her but I am not allowed to date yet. How do I tell my parents that I feel like im ready?
Well, parents know what best for you, if they don’t allow you first then i guess you should obey them but if you really like to you can talk to them about your feelings. Tell them why and how can you say that you are now ready to date a girl and of course whatever may happen you are bound to your decision, meaning to one to blame but you.
However, if you are having had time is approaching girls for a date or that girl you want to date with. You can ask help here.