Just wondering: Do you think a male Korean idol would date a white girl?
June 17, 2011 | 4 Comments
I’m not delusional! It just seems that in Korea, the attitude towards dating girls of different nationality is frowned upon… so just wondering, would a guy Idol in Korea date a white/British girl?
I think yeah, they’re human beings too. It would be frowned upon, mostly by older generations, but that happens in every culture. Besides in the recent age of globalization, younger generations are more open to the idea. Taeyang of BIGBANG, for example, said that he prefers girls with Western features.
Good luck, and have faith in love! 
Would it be weird for a girl to date a guy shorter than her?
April 17, 2011 | 7 Comments
Okay, so I’ve been liking this guy in one of my classes at school, but I’m obviously taller than him by like several inches…I’m 5’8" and who knows how tall he is, but he’s like up to my eyes/top of my forehead. I always found that dating guys shorter than me felt awkward, but he seems to really like me and I want to take it to the next level. I just keep thinking of the height difference and it’s annoying. So would it be visually awkward if I went out with him, or would it be no-biggy? Also, at what age do you think guys get taller because most of the guys at my school are short little things and finding a prom date would be pretty hard for me in a few years if they don’t grow taller sooner or later haha.
We are both 15.
If you like him then go out with him. Don’t let height be an issue. What is his age? let him grow. For me I am about your height and I don’t like dating girls taller than me, I try to go for shorter girls but if a girl likes me and I like her and she is taller than me it would not matter very much. Just enjoy your time. Good luck
How to pamper a girl on the first date???
July 25, 2010 | 10 Comments
I recently met a really nice girl on Craigslist and, after chatting with her for a while, we have decided to meet latter this week.
During our conversations, she revealed that very few of her previous boyfriends have never really attempted to satisfy her needs and that she was looking for a guy who would attempt to cater to both her emotional and physical needs.
During one of these conversations, I promised to pamper her and, while I’d try to do this for any girl who was nice enough to actually date me, she is definitely holding me to this promise.
I certainly intend to keep this promise but am not really as experienced as I should be dating girls who I don’t already know as a friend, and therefore know how to please.
I was wondering if any of you might have any suggestions on how to pamper a girl who I am just about to meet in person for the first time???
The more specific the suggestions the better.
Thank you in advance.
I would be very careful. The fact that she is holding you to "catering" to her needs, throws up a red flag. It’s very possible that after reading your messages to her, she knows that you are insecure and not overly self-confident (welcome to the club of insecurities and low self confidence).
It just makes me think that she is trying to manipulate you into thinking that she is doing you a favor because she "was nice enough to actually date" you.
You sound like a good, honest person. Being unsure of yourself or having low self esteem can make life difficult and lonely at times, but don’t sell out your happiness just to be with someone or anyone. You deserve better than that.
Have you ever told her what you expect of a date? Like you expect to be treated with respect and honesty?
I hope I’m wrong about her, but I saw myself in your question and hate to have you go through a painful relationship at the hands of a selfish person.
Take care and good luck and be willing to keep looking until you find the right person for you.
Karenpa
guys; would you ever NOT date a girl because she is a virgin?
March 8, 2010 | 4 Comments
say for instance you are a guy who is maybe used to dating girls, who will willingly have sex with you… then would you ever date a girl who is a virgin?
just wondering.
Lol a virgin is a huge plus for most guys … who would want a girl who sleeps around with a possible std
How to get a girl to arrange a date?
February 24, 2010 | 4 Comments
Im pretty good when it comes to dating girls…although i feel like im the one who always has to arrange them.
I have had three dates with this girl so far….she proposed that we should meet in the first place but i ended up arranging them and asking when she was free etc. She says that she looks forward to seeing me but isnt the one who asks me out.
It would feel nice if she said to me ‘hey do you want to……etc etc’
Any advice?
Plastic surgery