What do African-American men think about white guys dating black girls?
November 27, 2009 | 11 Comments
I was having a discussion with a friend and I mentioned that I like to date african-american women and he asked me if it was a "slave fantasy" for me.
I was quite offended at first but I then I just realized that everyone has their own opinions – and I explained to him how that never even crossed my mind.
What do African-American men think about white guys dating African-American women?
It’s more White Males who are narrow-minded about dating outside of their race. If that wasn’t so, look at how common it is to see Black Men dating or marrying outside of their race. Blacks as a whole are more willing to open their hearts to any race. As long as their sister or daughter is treated well. I’m glad there’s more good-looking, intelligent White Males like you who are open-minded enough to date Black Women. Unfortunately, the majority of White Men are affronted with a lower mind set and aren’t open to change. Deep down there may be some attraction but most White Males are influenced by their family and friends. Oftentimes, regret comes along the way when you don’t follow your heart. There’s a stigma about Black Women that need to be addressed and the debasement of Black Women by White Men is part of it. In History, Black Women were deprived of their innocence and as a result, stereotypes of ugliness and promiscuity, just to name a few are labels that are difficult to remove. You come across as an honest, kind hearted gentlemen and I’m sure you’ll be able to find a Black Girl who’ll be interested in dating you.
For caucasian women dating african american men, are you angry at african american women?
November 24, 2009 | 11 Comments
It has been my experience that my african american male friends dating outside of their race often end up dating caucasian/latina women who have prejudiced beliefs about african american women. Example, a caucasian women dating a friend of mine stated that she believed white women were superior to african american women because they were more attractive and intelligent. Another stated that all african american men want from african american women was sex or the p word. These are just two of the many examples so thought i’d pose the question. How does a caucasian/spanish woman with racist views towards african american women end up dating an african american man?
No they are delusioned.
African American women, how do you feel about dating non-African American men?reluctant
November 21, 2009 | 1 Comment
Many studies have been carried out to illustrate that the abundance of single African American women is due to African American women being ruluctant to interracial dating. Do some women really feel that they should only date African American men just because they are African American. Is that prejudiced? (It is but I would love to hear someone try and justify it regardless to get outside thoughts on the matter) If you’re not open to dating outside of your race why? If you are, why?
My mom is black and she married a white guy.
Guess it just depends on the person.
African American women, how do you feel about dating non-African American men?
October 18, 2009 | 2 Comments
Many studies have been carried out to illustrate that the abundance of single African American women is due to African American women being ruluctant to interracial dating. Do some women really feel that they should only date African American men just because they are African American. Is that prejudiced? (It is but I would love to hear someone try and justify it regardless to get outside thoughts on the matter) If you’re not open to dating outside of your race why? If you are, why?
I would do it but I actually was never approached by a guy of a different race. I never really cared. I have dated mixed guys though. It does not matter if they treat me right love has no color.