older african-american woman dating younger man who also happens to be white?

April 2, 2011 | 4 Comments

what are the chances of a african-american woman dating a man who is white and 9 years younger making a real connection? my main concern is that he has never been married and has no children. i, on the other hand have 2 adult children, 2 grandchildren and no interest in going down that road again. my next concern is that my older friends will bore him, and that his younger friends will find me aged. should i halt and reverse, or proceed?

you don’t mention your age but I suspect that you are in your 40′s to 50′s
9 years in 40 to 50′s is not as critical.
I trust you work on keeping fit and must be reasonably attractive???

Why don’t you just you just ‘go with the flow’ and enjoy it whilst it lasts. Maturity is not governed by age – you have mature 20/30 year olds and immature 50/60 year olds. It all depends on the person.

Does he treat you with respect and love and pay you attention and have you discussed your concerns with him? If he does and can cope with your children and grandchildren then go for it and let the chips fall where they may with your friends and it might help them broaden their views on the honky.

Good luck and I hope you get plenty of loving – just remember it is better to burn out than rust away.

Puerto Rician man dating African American woman. But family trouble?

August 4, 2010 | 1 Comment

(Sorry for typos I’m on my iPod touch)

Ok I’m dating a black girl and I’m puerto rican. Her family don’t care if I’m blue they still accept me but I’m scared that my family won’t accept her cause she black.

I’ve been dating pretty much black girls all my life because they come to me first. I date any type of woman I don’t care what culture, race, or color. As long she’s pretty on my eyes only and most importantly if she has a good inside. I only let girls come to me I don’t chase girls, so only girls who come to me is black girls, idk maybe because I look black cause I’m light skin puerto rican.

My family seems to have issues with me dating a African American woman. My dad saidd it’s because they scared to have bad connection with a African American family example you seen "Our Families Wedding" yea. My aunt seem to not like the color and my her mom is close to black.

It’s just a little issue for me because my family talk a lot of stuff about my last x (shes black), it made her leave me because my family didn’t like her. But this time my girlfriend knows and we planing on keeping our relationship in secret and planing on having kids when we 40 (yes we can last lol)

my questions

what is the problem with my family judging on the girls I date???????

I got a feeling it’s either a color issue, which my answer to that is i think we puerto rican have some color issue in puerto rico. Or the culture issue which my 2 answers is I understand but don’t we have a little bit of African in us so what’s the problem and i don’t care about culture. I mean I’m pround to be puerto rican but I feel like I’m a child of god and the world is god’s children at the end so it doesn’t matter about race

But my plans are for me and her (if). Is I’m gonna secretly marry her and don’t have kids till I’m 40 so my family will sort of forget about the outside and focus on the inside

Black people have a lot of negative stereotypes. Black people are associate with crime, rap music, murder, etc.

Black girls are stereotyped as ghetto, loud, rude, and obnoxious. Maybe your family thinks that your girlfriend is a bad influence and don’t want you to be around her.

how do white men go about dating african american women?

April 19, 2010 | 28 Comments


i wouldnt date an african american woman black
dont you hate how black call us white and its not offensive but we call them black and theres some big connumdrum there black where white if someone called me white i wouldnt take offense but i call some black kid black whole different story
i support the question

I am dating an African-American woman for the first time. Do their vaginas look different?

April 10, 2010 | 23 Comments

Sydvicious, I know there are no such things as troll vaginas. I figured that one out when I was 15. I am serious, thanks for all the serious responses.

Right below the "you know what" they have a small region called the "pedicalouris", and it acts as an extra receptor gene in which nuerons are transfered slightly faster, compared to white women. Then a little above the "you know what", but below the "you know what im talking about" it’s slightly elongated compared to other "homo sapiens"

Any caucasian guys dating african american girls? What do you like about her?

April 4, 2010 | 3 Comments

How are your family and friends responding to you two?

Not currently but I have. I like the same thing about african american woman as I do about caucasion woman, hispanic woman, etc. I didnt date her because she was african american, I dated her because I was attracted to her physically and her personality. My family was fine with it. If his family isnt, thats their problem and if it effects the way he treats you, dump him.

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