What do caucasian women think about african american women dating caucasian men ?
March 30, 2011 | 2 Comments
Just wondering because a friend of mine said that african american women gets upset when they see an african american man with a caucasian women… I know in michigan it a lot of interracial dating what about other states.
I’m a white woman,and I certainly can’t speak for my entire race or state, but… I just think people should date whoever they want to!
What is your opinion on a African American Man dating/marrying a girl who is white?
June 30, 2010 | 26 Comments
Yeah some of my friends think its an awkward combination, but some think they come together well.
First of all…Love don’t dicriminate people,races,color,age to name a few.Good for them! Love conquers everything and that is shown in our creator Jehovah God and His son Jesus! And as long as they put God first in their life and apply the bible in their relationship they will prosper spiritually in this life and after…
Why do Black Men say that Black Women are gold diggers.?
April 19, 2010 | 4 Comments
As an African American Man who has socialized in different cultural and professional environments, it is very annoying when I hear African American Men say that Black Women are gold diggers. Usually, the Black guys who make these ignorant statements probably and most often socialize with poor Black Women who are trying to assimilate the behavior of privileged American White Women, because more fortunate Black Women are not so greedy. The false concept of independence that most Black Women have won’t allow them to be gold diggers, and they will more often take care of a lazy Black Man rather than the other way around. But as a successful African American Man who has dated professional White, Americanized Asian and Latin women, I do know that these classes of women do not come cheap. I’m not speaking about White trash, I’m only speaking about professional White American and Americanized Women of other cultures; European women are not as materialistic. Most American White women are taught from an early age to date men from a perspective of dollars and cents. This doesn’t mean that they don’t have emotions, it just means that they expect you to have a very strong financial background and be able to maintain it, if not better, or don’t even look in their direction. So when I hear Black Men say that Black Women are gold diggers, I realize that they have only dealt with poor, ghetto Black Women and have never dated or socialized with Professional American White women. That could be why when many White guys lose their job, they go crazy because they have high standards to live up to for their wife and family, and the wife usually don’t want to hear excuses.
That so very true i guess all girls have high standards when it comes to guys but neglect to see how independent a woman is before they decide to date them and some females do the same
what are some African-American views/ perspectives about filipina women dating black men?
December 24, 2009 | 20 Comments
I am a Filipina woman who has in the fairly recent past become attracted to Black men as this is highly discouraged in the traditional filipino community. I dated an African American man who help me rid of my ignorance and who also helped me further my education as an Ethnic Studies major. I have always identified best with African American men, women and culture so most of my close friends are black. I have several issues with dealing with my close friends and their views on interracial relationships – especially with black men. It is a difficult situation for me since they have always been my best friends, and I have recently started dating black men. I would appreciate some general thoughts in regards to the issue.
I don’t care in the least. Who is to say that rules of attraction have to be restricted to inside a race? If that were the case, some of the most attractive celebrities today wouldn’t exist. Variety is the spice of life, enjoy it. As long as love is the motive, I’m all for it.
For caucasian women dating african american men, are you angry at african american women?
November 24, 2009 | 11 Comments
It has been my experience that my african american male friends dating outside of their race often end up dating caucasian/latina women who have prejudiced beliefs about african american women. Example, a caucasian women dating a friend of mine stated that she believed white women were superior to african american women because they were more attractive and intelligent. Another stated that all african american men want from african american women was sex or the p word. These are just two of the many examples so thought i’d pose the question. How does a caucasian/spanish woman with racist views towards african american women end up dating an african american man?
No they are delusioned.