Puerto Rician man dating African American woman. But family trouble?

(Sorry for typos I’m on my iPod touch)

Ok I’m dating a black girl and I’m puerto rican. Her family don’t care if I’m blue they still accept me but I’m scared that my family won’t accept her cause she black.

I’ve been dating pretty much black girls all my life because they come to me first. I date any type of woman I don’t care what culture, race, or color. As long she’s pretty on my eyes only and most importantly if she has a good inside. I only let girls come to me I don’t chase girls, so only girls who come to me is black girls, idk maybe because I look black cause I’m light skin puerto rican.

My family seems to have issues with me dating a African American woman. My dad saidd it’s because they scared to have bad connection with a African American family example you seen "Our Families Wedding" yea. My aunt seem to not like the color and my her mom is close to black.

It’s just a little issue for me because my family talk a lot of stuff about my last x (shes black), it made her leave me because my family didn’t like her. But this time my girlfriend knows and we planing on keeping our relationship in secret and planing on having kids when we 40 (yes we can last lol)

my questions

what is the problem with my family judging on the girls I date???????

I got a feeling it’s either a color issue, which my answer to that is i think we puerto rican have some color issue in puerto rico. Or the culture issue which my 2 answers is I understand but don’t we have a little bit of African in us so what’s the problem and i don’t care about culture. I mean I’m pround to be puerto rican but I feel like I’m a child of god and the world is god’s children at the end so it doesn’t matter about race

But my plans are for me and her (if). Is I’m gonna secretly marry her and don’t have kids till I’m 40 so my family will sort of forget about the outside and focus on the inside

Black people have a lot of negative stereotypes. Black people are associate with crime, rap music, murder, etc.

Black girls are stereotyped as ghetto, loud, rude, and obnoxious. Maybe your family thinks that your girlfriend is a bad influence and don’t want you to be around her.

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One Response to “Puerto Rician man dating African American woman. But family trouble?”

  1. ... Anna .... on August 3rd, 2010 11:24 pm

    Black people have a lot of negative stereotypes. Black people are associate with crime, rap music, murder, etc.

    Black girls are stereotyped as ghetto, loud, rude, and obnoxious. Maybe your family thinks that your girlfriend is a bad influence and don’t want you to be around her.
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