Play Hard To Get And Land The Man Of Your Dreams
Play Hard To Get and Land the Man of Your Dreams
So little girls might have heard it before from their mothers, that back in their days that in order to get a man, women used to play hard to get. This is why growing up millions and millions of angst-ridden teenage girls promised themselves never to do this. After being bombarded by this maxim over and over again.
After all it is during this crazy time of their lives that teenagers believe that they know everything. They are also convinced that the world is secretly plotting against them. This is why they are made to wear braces, and have at least a dozen pimples on their faces.
It is only natural during this time that any adult supervision or guidance is rejected. On the top of the unwanted list are of course, the parents.
But as these little girls grow up and become women, they realize that growing up they might’ve made a bad decision or two. If they are really honest with themselves, they would admit to at least half a dozen. They also realize that if they only listened, they could have benefited from the wisdom given to them by their parents.
This is why now, they are open to the idea that maybe, just maybe there is some truth to the saying that, ” Mothers know best”. And one of the things that mothers know best about has to do with dating! Oh the horror!
So how do you actually go about playing hard to get? Here are some tips:
1. For starters, women should not make themselves too easily attainable. They should make men work for their attention. Guys love a challenge. This will also send them the message that you are not one of those women that can be easily be taken!
2. Every girl should have some mystery about her. This intrigues men, and keep them guessing. On the first date, don’t try to win their sympathy by relating to them the dramatic story of your childhood, followed by a run down of all the names of bad boyfriends who have scorned you in the past. This will not score you any brownie points. This will only scare men away.
On second thought, if you are having one of those horrific blind dates from hell, by all means, go on ahead and do this. Plus, don’t forget to sob in the end. This will be the clincher that will guarantee that there won’t be a second date, because chances are, by that time you would have already won the title of: the worst blind date of all time.
3. Those who are serious about playing hard to get should never make the first move. This is crucial! Allow men to think that you are offering them the privilege of your presence! They will treat you like a queen! and rightly so.
Once men find out that a woman is interested in them, their interest tend to wane. Unless of course they are already hooked, lined, and sinker by this time. It is your job to make these men fall head over heels for you!
4. Go on with your life as usual. Don’t leave everything behind at the drop of a hat simply because you have a new man in your life.
Continue to spend some time with your friends and family.
Women should give themselves some alone time to do you’re their own thing. This way, the guy would not think that they are the clingy type, and are extremely dependent. This will also give the guy the illusion that they are in control.
5. Don’t let him have his way all the time. If time and time again you get dragged to see a Vin Diesel movie that you don’t want to see, you should start a one woman revolt! Organize a picket line around his house, and let out your fiercest Amazon woman battle cry. Do this repeatedly until he finally gives in and agree to make Friday nights, a Keanu Reeves marathon stay at home movie night!
6. Go easy on the phone calls. Women should not call a guy constantly simply to tell him that they want to hear his voice!
7. Flirt a little but not too much. Just enough to let the guy know that he does have a chance with you. What’s more if he is really nice, you might consider going out with him.
When playing hard to get it is important for women to remember not to go overboard with their strategy. They should drop little hints here and there that implicitly deliver the message that they are interested in the guy, but will not easily be gotten!
After all playing hard to get is a means to an end. In the end you want to make sure you win the game by getting the guy of your dreams.
My Relationship Tips
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6 Responses to “Play Hard To Get And Land The Man Of Your Dreams”
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I think it’s adorable! =)
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Read all before voting. No, I don’t just like. I LOVE it. You are a great storyteller. You should write and publish these stories. They are great. I am looking forward to seeing more of your stories. See ya!!!!
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I think it’s good. But if you don’t mind I’ll tell my daughter the story so far and report back. It’s a bit of short story rather than a beginning of a long story. I wonder if it would actually be great just as it is?
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It’s a nice little story, and i can imagine it as a book with really lovely pictures to accompany it. When you check over your final draft, maybe you should consider re-phrasing in some places, and check over your grammar and punctuation. Sorry, i don’t mean to sound picky, it’s just my opinion. I’m trying to give you constructive criticism to help you, not put you down. I’m no expert on story writing and i could be totally wrong. There’s no way i could write a story and i think you’ve done amazingly well. Keep up the good work.
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childrens story part one do you like?
Charlie the garden fairy
“Charlie the garden fairy gets her magic song“
Charlie the garden fairy would wake up every evening just as princess Laura and Prince James would close their eyes. Every evening she would stretch her arms and her wings and her legs and yawn the biggest yawn “no a much bigger yawn than that” for when Charlie the garden fairy yawns, it’s the biggest yawn in the whole wide world! Yes even bigger than a hippopotamus and when Charlie the garden fairy yawns all the flowers bend over, the leaves swirl around and around and the bees stop buzzing, which as you can imagine is the funniest sight that anyone can see“ bees not buzzing indeed“. Mammies and daddies think it’s the wind but its not, its Charlie the garden fairy yawning her enormous yawn. In fact when Charlie the garden fairy yawns her enormous yawn it sends Princess Laura and prince James in to the land of dreams where they can run jump and play and fly as high as they like. All the flowers fall fast asleep too, so that they can look as beautiful as they can be the following day. The birds return to their nests shuffle their tail feathers tuck their heads under their wings and fall fast asleep. Sometimes on very special nights the clouds would vanish the moon would shine as big and as bright as she could and all the stars would glisten and sparkle in the night sky. These were Charlie’s favourite nights for she flew up as high as she could smiled and marvelled at the wonderful sight. She could see all the garden fairies for miles and miles around fleeting around their gardens, leaving trails of sparkling glitter. Like thousands of shooting stars in the night sky, cleaning and sprucing singing their special songs, their magical songs. The songs that Selene queen of the garden fairies had given them. This made Charlie the happiest garden fairy in the world. Then she would float back down like a feather falling gently to the ground remembering that Selene had not given her a song. This made Charlie very sad for Charlie did everything that was expected of her. Every evening she would tidy the flower beds, tidy up the leaves and talk to the seedlings, which needed a lot of love and encouragement, so that they could grow up to be all that they could be. Oh! Why has Selene queen of the garden fairies not given me a song? All the other garden fairies have such beautiful songs and all I can do is hum. “Hum hum hum” I don’t want to hum any more. Just then Flames the flaming dragon arrived, what’s all this commotion? Charlie snuffled, wiped her eyes, held back her tears and turned to face Flames, but it was no good. First there was lip tremor, then their was a little sniffle, then the tears that she was trying so hard to hold back, started to flow. It’s not this song business again exclaimed Flames. Then in the most gentlest of tones, he put his arm around Charlie and said,” oh Charlie, your making the weeping willow tree cry, and if you don’t stop it will be called the whaling tree. I told you before, that Queen Selene will give you a song; you just have to be patient. But Flames was thinking it has been a long time, a very long time indeed. I wonder if the queen has forgotten. No, the queen has not forgotten. Selene queen of the garden fairies never forgets. Flames the flaming dragon was about to comfort Charlie by saying that she was a great hummer, for he did not know what else to say. When he suddenly noticed that their was thousands of bright sparkling garden fairy eyes looking down on Charlie and Flames the flaming dragon. They were all smiling and seemed so happy because they knew something that flames the flaming dragon and Charlie the garden fairy did not know. Flames was about to give out when their was a great parting of the glittering eyes. Then their was the sweetest music. Mrs Chop heard the sweet music and hurried over for she knew what was going to happen. Cinders the flaming dragon popped her head out from behind Princess Laura and Prince James’ play castle, all the flowers woke up and stretched their petals as wide as they could. Mr twist and Miss turn wriggled there way out from the depths of the ground to see what was going on for the vibrations they heard interrupted their dance, they were practising for the finals of jive worms the annual dance competition. Charlie looked up with great surprise and noticed queen Selene standing on a maple leaf shaped like a chariot being pulled by six fire flies. As she moved closer, all the garden fairies moved in behind the queen. Charlie turned to flames the flaming dragon, oh flames it’s me it’s me it’s really me as she brushed herself clean “how do I look” as she dropped to her knees and bowing her head so low. Hello flames how you are old friend said Queen Selene as she flapped her wings so gently and floated of her chariot. Hello your majesty replied flames with a smile from ear to ear as he bowed. Hello Charlie said the queen kneeling down beside her. I’m sorry I have not been to see you, it’s just that I needed to find the right song for you and for your garden, for you have a very special garden, A magical garden and finding a song that’s just right has been most difficult.
Queen Selene whispered in Charlie’s ear her special song, her magical song. Charlie the garden fairy’s eyes beamed so bright, that flames the flaming dragon whipped out his sun glasses and said “Cool”. All the other garden fairies were smiling and chatting, well Charlie, what’s your song? Charlie replied’ you will all have to wait until morning. Queen Selene said, it’s ok Charlie, you can sing your song now, just this once. Charlie the garden fairy smiled and started to sing her song, her magical song.
Wake up wake up it’s a beautiful day
The sun is out it’s time to play
The birds are singing what a beautiful day
Come out, come out, come out and play.
Something wonderful started to happen to the garden as Charlie sang her song. The grass got greener, the flower petals grew a little bigger and in some cases they grew new petals. All the other garden fairies were in awe with Charlie the garden fairy’s song and cheered hip hip hurray.
Does your garden fairy have a song?
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