Japan – How to #21 – Pick-up Girls??

Talking about dating in Japan here:

http://www.thejapanchannel.com/Japan-Forum/index.html

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25 Responses to “Japan – How to #21 – Pick-up Girls??”

  1. rupert93r on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    It’s all about game …
    It’s all about game. If you’ve got tight game, you’ll have no problem hooking up with attractive girls, no matter the country you’re in.

  2. barron8006 on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    Though foreigners …
    Though foreigners don’t get near the attention they used (excepting black rap enthusiasts), there are opportunities to do some healthy dating for the foreigner in Japan. It’s not going to be spontaneous, and it definitely isn’t like home (thank goodness) but if you put enough time and culture savvy into it, you’ll find it. That being said, don’t be a deusch bag.

  3. barron8006 on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    Another thing: what …
    Another thing: what about the Anglo guys that live in much more negative dating environment then the J-girls you describe. When I lived in Japan, there were Western guys that helped each other out, and Western guys that were little dweebs trying to dissuade their guilt at dating a sexual liberated, graceful J-lady–something back home told them was mysoginist, or something.

  4. barron8006 on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    The confusion stems …
    The confusion stems from ethnocentrism. Since Japan is traditional, we assume that it fits Western definitions. Tradition in Christian cultures means celibate, marriage-prone. In Japan it means honor and hierarchy. “Japanese women are dating for marriage?” joking? The average age of marriage in Japan in 30 plus. I’d gander less then half of women in Tokyo 20-35 are married. Sexuality, with the exception of fascist period, is pretty developed. I don’t think a fling with a foreigner dreads j-girls

  5. barron8006 on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    This guy is not …
    This guy is not giving very accurate info. I would chock it up to ignorance except his other videos on the culture are pretty good. Instead, and this is common over there, you’re dealing with a white guy ashamed of his masculinity. There are many of these guys in the Anglo West who are taught this in our anti-male culture.
    He’s lying for two reasons: one, he thinks he’s defending Japanese women from young men dastardly enough to express their sexuality. And he doesn’t want people in his sandbox

  6. yumr1ce on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    I have the utmost …
    I have the utmost respect for this aussie dude because he’s totally honest about how foreign/western guys perceive Japanese girls when they go into Japan and putting them straight. Also speaks about Japanese girls in a realistic point of view/takes their approach towards foreign men seriously and understands them and he’s giving the best advice westerner guys would ever need before trying to get with a Japanese chick.

    Good on ya mate.

  7. pants7 on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    Very awesome! I …
    Very awesome! I like this! makes me wanna move to japan to find a wife. For real. Thanks for posting! I’m subscribing

  8. WillyumV3 on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    Wow a country with …
    Wow a country with real women. I was born into this curse of a buttfuck country. I want to know the divorce/cheating rates compared to america

  9. KurokamiRyuu100 on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    @ …
    @TheJapanChannelDcom-i’ve been wondering …….. when i watch this vid i asked myself what happens if i end up dating a japanese girl who was actually the daughter of the yakuza leader……….. would the thought of that be a little ………. in your opinion would that be suicidal

  10. dodgingaces on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    getting a girl in …
    getting a girl in japan may last as long as you stay……but buying a japanese doll lasts forever XD

  11. WhyBeF on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    Girls of all …
    Girls of all nationalities want sex. Maybe you have to approach Japanese women differently, but their desires are the same as any other women. If you’re unlucky with japanese women, you’re probably unlucky with all other kind too…lol

  12. mariomichel on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    Thanks. Love your …
    Thanks. Love your channel. I’m going through a difficult long distance relationship with my Japanese girlfriend, and I’ve learned so much about her culture from watching these ids and learning japanese. Been to Japan several times but now have a better appreciation for it.

  13. walktwisted on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    @ …
    @TheJapanChannelDcom hahahahaa that good

  14. christopherinjapan on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    dude awesomely …
    dude awesomely insightful – you’ve broken it down perfectly!

  15. TheJapanChannelDcom on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    @ …
    @GazettExXxVisualKei
    Watch number 22

  16. GazettExXxVisualKei on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    what about forign …
    what about forign girls picking up japanese guys…? though Iwould much rather have a serious relationship then just a short therm thing but I’m courious how the guys would react to forign girls…

  17. evilskills on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    i am planning on …
    i am planning on moving there and staying there forever but i am gonna visit my country a few times and when i cisit my country for the first time would they be like “aw he is gonna move back to his country i better break-up with him” or rather “he is just gonna visit his country for a few days dont worry about it” i would like to know

  18. guttermoth on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    It’s actually …
    It’s actually really nice the japanese women aren’t skeezy like the american women.
    I’ve watched #1-21 so far,btw.
    I didn’t search this video on tips for dating japanese girls. haha :3

  19. Gizziiusa on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    you forgot that a …
    you forgot that a certain percentage are racist too. almost all asian countries are to one degree or another. Hie, kee-jee-gi hunto !

  20. misterbearbe on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    Do you work with …
    Do you work with the JET program?

  21. MrGatsuga on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    @kakashidemon321 …
    @kakashidemon321 that saddens me, oh well!

  22. kakashidemon321 on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    @sdvan97 Hey now, …
    @sdvan97 Hey now, Japan isn’t heaven, you know. :/ They still have problems with sexism and stuff like that….it’s a great place but it has it’s problems. Every Country does. :D

    But you’re right, there are a lot of things we could learn from them. :/

  23. kakashidemon321 on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    @MrGatsuga Well …
    @MrGatsuga Well they’re not too interested in romance, either. XD Pretty much just marriage. Watch the video about general dating from him. It says that the Japanese way in dating is pretty much BARELY seeing each other. Anything considered romantic here would be considered clingy there. :/

  24. Stevardi on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    I too will be in …
    I too will be in Japan for the month of November, and was starting to look for some more details on Japan. I agree that the Japanese women are just being nice or looking for a cheap pseudo English tutor.

    This month will be a cursory look for me, I would like to possibly move to Japan. Any advice or vid’s for someone looking to make the jump. Are there any jobs outside of English teaching, that foreigners may get in to? Thanks for the great informative vid’s

  25. Reizermo on September 2nd, 2010 1:35 pm

    Hey! I am going to …
    Hey! I am going to Japan in November so I thought I’d do some research. Delighted to have stumbled across your videos. You’re very easy to listen to. Probably the Ozzie accent. Anyway, this video made so much sense. I have met loads of Japanese girls while travelling (in a friend capacity) and you are right, they came across so warm and friendly. It was quite refreshing and it’s easy to think – I’m in!! But it’s not the case. They are just being friendly I guess.

    Thanks for posting!

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