how bad is it for a 19y guy to date a 14y girl?
I’m just about 19 and just curious about this. Usually I date girls older than me, but she seems nice and all(I actually thought she was 17-18 when I met her). If everything is kept legal, is that an ok thing to do, because I also know on average guys end up with girls years younger than them, but I also wouldn’t want to break social norms in dating someone unless I really liked them and knew them a lot.
You really want to think about this.. I guess it’s pretty sad that it’s wrong and everything. But,, I’m 14, and I wouldn’t be going out with a 19 yo ,, neverrr .coz it’s always better to go with people your own age. There’s more fun that way, more things to do… and there’s more chance if arguements and stuff when your dating someone younger. And it’s just.. Very Wrong lol.
good luck you seem a nice guy.
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Get to know her better, then when you guys do let parents know and get their permission
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whatever you’re thinking or curious about, it’s a definite NO unless you want to be behind bars
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Thatss not righht bro.
Thats like 5 years?
Think about it , if anything ever did happen , its illegal.
You’d be classes as a peado.
Its really not right.
I suggest you just find someone your ages or 1-2 years younger or older.
14 , and 19 , comon thats ridiculous.
Id be suprised if her parents were okay with that too.
and to be honest , she’d just get fully bullied by people in her year at school.
Mm Its wronnng.
Any one else agree with me?
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it’s jail-bait for him
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I think you really know the answer to your question. Common sence and morals should guide you on the right path….if you need a little help deciding..STICK TO PEOPLE WHO ARE LEGAL! YOU ARE AN ADULT KNOW! TIME TO GET YOUR D11CK OUT OF THE SCHOOLYARD! and stay with people who are only 2 years age difference
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its okay
i mean in reality
girls’ minds are ahead of boys’ minds
by 9 years
so your good.
go for her if you can handle you being in college
and her being a freshmen in highschool?
if shes mature n all…
go for it
and social norms?
dude stop following people
get out of the line
and do ur own thang
and dont be too much of a prude either
she could be ur soulmate
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You really want to think about this.. I guess it’s pretty sad that it’s wrong and everything. But,, I’m 14, and I wouldn’t be going out with a 19 yo ,, neverrr .coz it’s always better to go with people your own age. There’s more fun that way, more things to do… and there’s more chance if arguements and stuff when your dating someone younger. And it’s just.. Very Wrong lol.
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Please dont bother with a girl that much younger than you. Its not a good idea for very many reasons. She’s still very young, still in school, I just turned 20 and a person that age is just a child in my eyes. Try to find someone closer to your age if they are going to be younger than you. Somebody that is just as mature as you yourself are.
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