how bad is it for a 19y guy to date a 14y girl?

I’m just about 19 and just curious about this. Usually I date girls older than me, but she seems nice and all(I actually thought she was 17-18 when I met her). If everything is kept legal, is that an ok thing to do, because I also know on average guys end up with girls years younger than them, but I also wouldn’t want to break social norms in dating someone unless I really liked them and knew them a lot.

You really want to think about this.. I guess it’s pretty sad that it’s wrong and everything. But,, I’m 14, and I wouldn’t be going out with a 19 yo ,, neverrr .coz it’s always better to go with people your own age. There’s more fun that way, more things to do… and there’s more chance if arguements and stuff when your dating someone younger. And it’s just.. Very Wrong lol.

:) good luck you seem a nice guy.

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8 Responses to “how bad is it for a 19y guy to date a 14y girl?”

  1. Helpmeh on January 26th, 2010 1:15 pm

    Get to know her better, then when you guys do let parents know and get their permission
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  2. Helen on January 26th, 2010 2:03 pm

    whatever you’re thinking or curious about, it’s a definite NO unless you want to be behind bars
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  3. :) on January 26th, 2010 2:21 pm

    Thatss not righht bro.
    Thats like 5 years?
    Think about it , if anything ever did happen , its illegal.
    You’d be classes as a peado.
    Its really not right.
    I suggest you just find someone your ages or 1-2 years younger or older.
    14 , and 19 , comon thats ridiculous.
    Id be suprised if her parents were okay with that too.
    and to be honest , she’d just get fully bullied by people in her year at school.
    Mm Its wronnng.
    Any one else agree with me?
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  4. Real life works for me on January 26th, 2010 3:06 pm

    it’s jail-bait for him
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  5. FTW for the wolf on January 26th, 2010 3:18 pm

    I think you really know the answer to your question. Common sence and morals should guide you on the right path….if you need a little help deciding..STICK TO PEOPLE WHO ARE LEGAL! YOU ARE AN ADULT KNOW! TIME TO GET YOUR D11CK OUT OF THE SCHOOLYARD! and stay with people who are only 2 years age difference
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  6. Neegeen on January 26th, 2010 3:35 pm

    its okay
    i mean in reality
    girls’ minds are ahead of boys’ minds
    by 9 years
    so your good.
    go for her if you can handle you being in college
    and her being a freshmen in highschool?
    if shes mature n all…
    go for it
    and social norms?
    dude stop following people
    get out of the line
    and do ur own thang
    and dont be too much of a prude either
    she could be ur soulmate
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  7. ♪ Ɍuʈħeykins :D on January 26th, 2010 3:58 pm

    You really want to think about this.. I guess it’s pretty sad that it’s wrong and everything. But,, I’m 14, and I wouldn’t be going out with a 19 yo ,, neverrr .coz it’s always better to go with people your own age. There’s more fun that way, more things to do… and there’s more chance if arguements and stuff when your dating someone younger. And it’s just.. Very Wrong lol.

    :) good luck you seem a nice guy.
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  8. maxinegirl_2001 on January 26th, 2010 4:16 pm

    Please dont bother with a girl that much younger than you. Its not a good idea for very many reasons. She’s still very young, still in school, I just turned 20 and a person that age is just a child in my eyes. Try to find someone closer to your age if they are going to be younger than you. Somebody that is just as mature as you yourself are.
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