First Date – Guy’s Apartment, Naturally Sloppy Or Falsely Neat?
You are a woman.
You meet a guy.
You are interested in him.
At your leisure you go to his home for the first time.
Do you prefer that for this first date, at his place,
he has cleaned and re-arranged everything to give
the impression that he is very neat and organized?
Or would you rather see his place for the first time
in its natural state the way he always keeps it which
would likely be a bit sloppy or disorganized
(assuming that this is natural for him)?
A little sloppiness is fine, but dirty dishes in any place but the sink and old food boxes is where I draw the line.
Even without it, a stench in the apartment is a deal-breaker.
Think about it from my perspective: if I’m eventually going to have sex with this guy, I’d want it to be with someone whom I didn’t have to ask if he bathed that day. Dirty, unwashed penis going up inside of another person is asking for a urinary tract infection.
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well surely that depends on whether or not he has exactly identically cut finger nails on both hands.
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A little sloppiness is fine, but dirty dishes in any place but the sink and old food boxes is where I draw the line.
Even without it, a stench in the apartment is a deal-breaker.
Think about it from my perspective: if I’m eventually going to have sex with this guy, I’d want it to be with someone whom I didn’t have to ask if he bathed that day. Dirty, unwashed penis going up inside of another person is asking for a urinary tract infection.
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one woman’s opinion
I prefer natural. I am neat freak and once the truth is revealed I would be angry. I will have to mention my neat freakness OCD to him as we date and tell him how I actually feel sick if things are to messy.
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It’s better to clean it I think even if you are normally a slob if you have a girl coming over you could at least straighten up a little bit. If you don’t straighten up I get the impression that you don’t care at all and for me, that would be an issue.
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I don’t mind a little clutter, but I’d at least like to be able to see the floor.
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It had better be neat or else I’m out. I don’t do dirty places period.
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I’m not a woman, but I would expect she’d be insulted that you don’t even bother to make your place presentable for her. She might think you feel she is not worth cleaning up for, or that you take her for granted. Unless she is a slob at home too, you really should clean up the place… and shower, and dress nicely as well. Really: R-E-S-P-E-C-T!
If you plan to have a woman around more than once or twice you might even consider cleaning up after yourself on a regular basis. Women know full well that if they ever move in with you, they will wind up having to clean the place. You will be a lot more appealing to them, if visions of your future together, don’t consist of her following you around with a laundry bag, and a mop.
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