Dating Tips for Guys: A Woman’s Perspective : How to Buy a Woman a Drink

Buying a woman a drink at a bar or concert as a first move will not tell if she likes you, or start up conversation. Know when to buy a drink and try landing a date with dating advice from a female dating coach in this free video on dating tips for guys.

Expert: Jessica Claire
Contact: www.newyorkdatingcoach.com
Bio: Jessica Claire is the host of her own midnight hour talk radio show, where she gives call in advice on dating.
Filmmaker: Paul Muller

Duration : 0:1:19


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25 Responses to “Dating Tips for Guys: A Woman’s Perspective : How to Buy a Woman a Drink”

  1. Tifftrinity on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    If it’s Facebook …
    If it’s Facebook send her a poke and see if she pokes back…If she does, then just send an small message saying, “Hey you! Just curious…How are you doing today?”, If a guy sent me an message like that I would love it! A. Because he said he was CURIOUS about me and B. Because he wanted to learn more about me without the feeling of being clingy! :)

  2. TheLegendarySpirit on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    i have a question, …
    i have a question, now anyone can feel free to answer my question whether it’s good, great, excellent, bad, horrible, offensive of any sort, just answer: i sent this girl a ”friend request” and she excepted my request, then i sent a message saying: hey, thanks for the add, and she doesn’t reply back, now i really am interested in this girl i added, seriously, should send another message trying to get to know her better or leave it alone because she didn’t reply the 1st time?

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  4. kodythepimp01 on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    what if your like ” …
    what if your like “If i buy you a drink you gonna chat with me for a lil bit” all flirty and stuff

  5. zoesexymodeldating on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    Hi
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  6. superjuandiego on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    how to buy a woman …
    how to buy a woman a drink? easy … just don’t!

  7. 9999sanchez on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    Don’t roll out …
    Don’t roll out closing time bitch.

  8. bjackrose on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    I agree with this …
    I agree with this woman. The only question I have is when she says that buying a woman a drink does not assure that she will “talk to you”. No straight man wants to sit and listen to a woman talk anyway so that’s a good thing. It’s rare that my life was enriched after speaking to a woman. Good advice though–Don’t buy a woman a drink.

  9. RioUchiha on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    dude you rock so …
    dude you rock so much I just took a in my pants.

  10. 9999sanchez on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    Great idea boysani1.
    Great idea boysani1.

  11. 9999sanchez on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    She’s pretty hot,.. …
    She’s pretty hot,.. and horny!

  12. RafaeINadal on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    YOU DIG YOUR SISTER …
    YOU DIG YOUR SISTER? DUDE THAT’S SICK

  13. HavenJaede on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    HAHAHAHAHAHA
    HAHAHAHAHAHA

  14. ybdiel on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    you can always say …
    you can always say ‘Can i buy you a drink…or you prefer the money instead?’ :)

  15. bansani1 on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    I suggest buying …
    I suggest buying her 10 drinks. Chances are high she won’t be able to talk and walk any more. Then carry her home.

    This is Bansa, your Alabama redneck dating coach.

  16. SD1Chargers on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    $8 for a drink?


    $8 for a drink?

    WTF…dude, buy a pitcher and send her a glass and get on with it or not….if you have to stick a friggin’ umbrella in it.

  17. 9999sanchez on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    If anybody gives …
    If anybody gives you money as a dating coach, you’re taking their money. I think you hit the wall. You couldn’t get a date from a wet-back low-life like me. My seester looks better than this beat-up slob.

  18. outgoing37 on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    So if he woman asks …
    So if he woman asks to buy me a drink.I can say no without her thinkingi wanna talk to her.Oh lawrd this is so dumb.You make it seem like we should come prepared like we are in school.How about being yourself.Post one on how to buy a guy a drink.LOL..

  19. vaccarovj on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    It isn’t enough …
    It isn’t enough that there is a LADIES night at bars (and no men’s night) which is sexist. but in this situation, the GUY still has to buy the girl a drink. That is messed up.
    That’s why bars are terrible. They are sexist and have loud terrible music

  20. Chipwhitley274 on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    If she asks you to …
    If she asks you to buy her a drink before earning it you can respond with something like “Tell you what. Surprise me and buy me any drink you want and I will do the same for you.” In this case you are breaking even. Or even telling her to buy you a drink and you will get the next round. Or jokingly Whoa, youre going to fast, buy me a drink first. She may even do it showing that she will comply with your requests thus she is interested. But there ARE appropriate occasions to buy her a drink.

  21. Chipwhitley274 on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    Usually this womans …
    Usually this womans advice is off the mark but she was actually more or less correct here. It is not submissive to buy a woman a drink if she has earned it, if she has displayed positive behavior and interest towards you. Yes it is submissive to just buy a drink when she has done nothing to warrant your interest.

  22. YaahMuleGiddyUp on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    Hey sister its a …
    Hey sister its a new world — you women want equality, well step up — us men are waiting for you to approach us/ open your wallets etc etc etc

  23. LosAngelesWriter on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    NEVER EVER buy a …
    NEVER EVER buy a woman a drink. It puts you in a submissive position.

  24. SolemnPro on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    All of this just …
    All of this just reminds me, I treated a relationship as a business deal the whole way through it was my first relationship so I didn’t know nothing. Anyway worked out really well actually, and she seemed to enjoy paying me back ah =] i miss highschool

  25. mostlysunny117 on December 25th, 2009 6:33 am

    take ur middle …
    take ur middle finger and put on ur nose.
    2.say a name of someone u like.
    3.that person will ask u out or say they love u tomarrow.
    4. heres the thing copy and paste to 2 other vids
    dnt read this(cuz it really wrks). u will gt kissd on the nearest frieday by the love of ur life. 2mara wll b the bst day of ur life hwever if you dnt post ths comment 2 at least 3 vids u will die withn 2 days
    i wonder what happens if ur bf says he loves u and kisses you every day…

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