Christian Dating Tips – Honoring God in Dating – What EVERY couple needs to know!

Many relationship fall apart because many don’t know the basics. This video captures some of the basics and hopefully prevents hurt, pain, and permanent damages. Hosea 4:6 says, “For my people are destroyed for lack of knowledge.”

The video includes:
Chp 1-What you need to know before getting into a Relationship
Chp 2-How to get Purely the Best
Chp 3-How to enjoy Sex to the Fullest
Chp 4-What’s my Role?
Chp 5-How to find the ‘One’
Chp 6-Extra Tips

Christian Dating knowledge is not just for believers but for all humans, for we are created by God and God has given the information for us all. God wants our lives, marriage, love, heart to be full of joy and bliss. So let’s see what the Creator has designed for us.

“A respectful man/woman knows that the person does NOT belong to them until they are married.” The option to leave is respect for the individual.

Enjoy and God bless.

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PS. For me and my wife, waiting for marriage was worth it. Thanks to God’s advice.

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My Story:
After graduating college, I was single. I felt lonely and I desired to have someone to call my own. I didn’t want just a physical partner but one I can relate to emotionally, spiritually, mentally, academically, socially, and more. Then talking to a good brother in Christ, he told me, “Don’t pray that God will give you someone; Pray that you’ll be good enough, when that someone comes.”

So how do I become good enough? I remembered something I learned during a youth Bible study: Learn your Master, then your Mission, then you will learn your Mate. I did just that. I got to know God be reading through One-Year Bibles for a few years. I learned my mission (disciple making) through friends in the Navigators. Then having learned God’s design for relationships, I learned how to be a good enough mate, as well as how to find a good mate.

Hence, through prayer and following God, I pray and even gave it up to God. I told God that “if it is meant for me to stay single for the rest of my life, Lord I will consider and make myself ready.” I gave up my desire and told God that I will let His desire be priority over mine. That’s when my wife entered my life, 2 months after I had that alone talk with God. And the rest, is history.

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25 Responses to “Christian Dating Tips – Honoring God in Dating – What EVERY couple needs to know!”

  1. 007bcom on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    the exception to …
    the exception to remarriage while your ex-spouse is alive is sexual immorality

  2. reynandvalenzuela on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    @kflo37 i never …
    @kflo37 i never said the woman rules over man. the weakness of a woman is to take the lead from the man. be careful when u say “rule” because it implies higher position. whereas, man is not above a woman. man and woman are equally important and play different roles: team captain and team player.

  3. kflo37 on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    I like the idea of …
    I like the idea of the video..however, I mist say that there were a few scriptural errors..u stated things that were not being stated in the Word of God..for instance..1Peter 3:1-2..Malachi 2:16…Genesis 3:16…esp. Genesis..the Word clearly states that the man will have rule over te woman not thy the woman will want to rule over the man…again good idea..just make sure it lines up with the Word..

  4. gothbaby6 on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    “Till death do us …
    “Till death do us part”….horribly depressing…

  5. reynandvalenzuela on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    Hi all: …
    Hi all: ANNOUNCEMENT:

    FOLLOW-UP VIDEO: – /watch?v=GHEZnchxISI

    FOLLOW-UP VIDEO for non-believers: /watch?v=bmYLAobiqEA

    Everyone including non-believers can benefit from God’s advice. The one for non-believers excludes Scriptures.
    Captions and translator included in each follow-up video.
    Thanks and Enjoy.
    -reynandvalenzuela

  6. LivingSuccess247 on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    Its about time that …
    Its about time that Christians learn some real stuff found in this video

  7. reynandvalenzuela on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    @boboblack188 (1) …
    @boboblack188 (1) you will know someone is a true Christian by their love. according to Jesus. (2) should have a track record of service (3) check motives of their service (4) trust the Holy Spirit and pray whether this person is it or not. (5) set date criteria.

    i recommend “I gave dating a chance” by jeremy clark. that book helped me during college all the way till the day i got married. easy reading, large font, and soft paper. :)

  8. boboblack188 on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    Great video. I …
    Great video. I think most divorce stems from Christian getting married to non-christians. Just my opinion. But how can we find like minded Christians who are committed to marriage and not just consider it just a game or something?

  9. hiraikotsuember on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    05:32 lol susie and …
    05:32 lol susie and calvin…they’re a lil’ young to be married, aren’t they? jk
    Great vid, very informative

  10. ackee20 on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    preach it!!!!!
    preach it!!!!!

  11. Terrybob123 on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    @williss11 You’ll …
    @williss11 You’ll be with everyone in heaven who has believed in God, his son Jesus, and followed him. marriage doesn’t happen in the kingdom of heaven, whne you die, it breaks the bond of marriage. thats why it says “tilll death do you part” after all. you’ll be with your husband, but he will be your brother in the kingdom.

  12. yxa86 on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    @williss11
    We …

    @williss11
    We would not need procreation in Heaven. We will practice love there.

  13. GODsjouranlist832 on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    very helpful
    very helpful

  14. williss11 on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    @reynandvalenzuela …
    @reynandvalenzuela so theres no remaggared wen were in heaven?

  15. reynandvalenzuela on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    @williss11 Jesus …
    @williss11 Jesus said, after death, you will not be bonded to her in marriage. everyone in heaven will be brothers and sisters: children of our father.

    See Luke 20:27-36.

    ” “So tell us, whose wife will she be in the resurrection? For all seven were married to her! Jesus replied, Marriage is for people here on earth. But in the age to come, those worthy of being raised from the dead will neither marry nor be given in marriage.” -Luke 20:33-35 (NLT)

  16. reynandvalenzuela on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    @williss11 Jesus …
    @williss11 Jesus said, after death, you will not be bonded to her in marriage. everyone in heaven will be brothers and sisters: children of our father.

    See Luke 20:27-36.

    ” “So tell us, whose wife will she be in the resurrection? For all seven were married to her! Jesus replied, Marriage is for people here on earth. But in the age to come, those worthy of being raised from the dead will neither marry nor be given in marriage.” -Luke 20:33-35 (NLT)

  17. williss11 on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    but i dont get it …
    but i dont get it wat if i die and my mate remarries who am i ganna spend all eternity in heaven with?? jesus? i want to be with both

  18. gnatural on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    God Bless you, …
    God Bless you, thank you for this video!!

  19. americanzero on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    Thanks, brother! …
    Thanks, brother! God bless!

  20. jhonles19 on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    no religion can …
    no religion can save us only our faith no religion is right or chosen… no matter how u r pro reading at d bible not spreading d good news in ds dark world full of sin I feel selfish….

  21. Seraph825 on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    but the bible never …
    but the bible never mentions lilith

  22. MichaelGabrielR on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    @cutenukkah
    During …

    @cutenukkah
    During the time of Adam and Eve, people where marrying their close family members. If that wasn’t the case then they where not marrying human beings! Mind you that genetic abnormalities where almost non-existent and laws against incest where given much later by Moses.

  23. MichaelGabrielR on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    @gayerthankali

    @gayerthankali
    Times have changed? We’re dealing with absolute morality and a being outside of time (thus unchangeable). If you’re not basing your morality on the Word of God, who teaches about divorce and adultery, then you’re building on man’s whim, that sooner than later will be negated by another individual who will do the same.
    Did you also omit the passage that warns us about guarding our mouths?

  24. MichaelGabrielR on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    @gayerthankali

    @gayerthankali
    Lilith? Do you take your knowledge from Jewish myths or the infallible Word of God? What’s next? Roman Catholic tradition? So much for Sola Scriptura then.

  25. IsaacHmltn on June 18th, 2010 6:49 am

    If your bible says …
    If your bible says something about another woman other the eve, then you are reading a false bible. Read the King James version of the bible. God put annoiting on King James to translate the original which were in Greek, Hebrew and Latin into the Old English. Millions of lives have been save from reading that version and it has stood the test of time.

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