How to pamper a girl on the first date???
July 25, 2010 | 10 Comments
I recently met a really nice girl on Craigslist and, after chatting with her for a while, we have decided to meet latter this week.
During our conversations, she revealed that very few of her previous boyfriends have never really attempted to satisfy her needs and that she was looking for a guy who would attempt to cater to both her emotional and physical needs.
During one of these conversations, I promised to pamper her and, while I’d try to do this for any girl who was nice enough to actually date me, she is definitely holding me to this promise.
I certainly intend to keep this promise but am not really as experienced as I should be dating girls who I don’t already know as a friend, and therefore know how to please.
I was wondering if any of you might have any suggestions on how to pamper a girl who I am just about to meet in person for the first time???
The more specific the suggestions the better.
Thank you in advance.
I would be very careful. The fact that she is holding you to "catering" to her needs, throws up a red flag. It’s very possible that after reading your messages to her, she knows that you are insecure and not overly self-confident (welcome to the club of insecurities and low self confidence).
It just makes me think that she is trying to manipulate you into thinking that she is doing you a favor because she "was nice enough to actually date" you.
You sound like a good, honest person. Being unsure of yourself or having low self esteem can make life difficult and lonely at times, but don’t sell out your happiness just to be with someone or anyone. You deserve better than that.
Have you ever told her what you expect of a date? Like you expect to be treated with respect and honesty?
I hope I’m wrong about her, but I saw myself in your question and hate to have you go through a painful relationship at the hands of a selfish person.
Take care and good luck and be willing to keep looking until you find the right person for you.
Karenpa
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