How To Sleep With A Girl On The First Date
October 9, 2009 | 3 Comments
Most guys think it would be easier to sleep with a girl by taking her directly from the club to their house the same night than it would to get a number, meet for a date and then do it. However, if you know what you are doing, you will be able to sleep with girls on a first date very consistently, and even if it only took you a few minutes to get the number. Here’s what you do:
1. Meet at Night, Near Your House
When you call, tell them that she can come with you for a drink at a nice place you know. Make the meeting place within a few minutes of your house. Make the meeting time sometime after dinner in the evening. The reason you meet in the night should be clear if you have ever had a coffee shop date where the sexual tension and excitement has all fizzled out over an hour or two of boring conversation. This also leads on to the next rule.
2. Treat Her Like Your Girlfriend
When you meet her, hug her, kiss her on the cheek, and take her hand, put your arm around her, or walk arm-in-arm. I’ll make something clear, if she has met you for a date, attraction is assumed. She’ll be comfortable as long as you are. Lead her to the venue if you didn’t meet there already.
3. Get Comfortable, Don’t Let the Tension Slip Away
Once in the bar, sit within touching distance of her. Don’t leave a big space between you. Your conversation should be aimed at getting connections. Mix in some playful teasing and also some sexual looks. This should mix things up and ensure the sexual tension remains.
4. The Extraction
Now hopefully you live in a city where the bars close at 11pm. If not, you can say, “let’s go somewhere else” Throw in a reason if you like- too noisy, crowded, smoky, whatever. Lead her outside and walk down the road with her towards your house. As you walk, keep the conversation going about whatever you were talking about. She will be distracted until you reach the house.
5. The Objection
When she realises you have taken her to your house, she will object in 90% of cases. Like “where are we?”, “why are we at your house?” Here you can either say you wanted to show her something (a pet, some pictures), say you remembered you had some nice wine so she can come in for a bit but that you can’t stay up late because you have to wake up early. Remember that this is only a logical objection, if she is still walking with you, she does actually want to stay with you.
6. Smoothly Seduce
When in the house, let her sit down (I only have a bedroom and she can only sit on the bed!). Get her a drink and sit a little bit away from her. Put some music on if you have it. Give her some space and time to get comfortable. Tone down the sexuality (unless she is obviously raring to go). Give it some time, then pay her a compliment and move in and start kissing. Be slow and smooth, slowly work up. If she objects again, just move back a step and keep things going.
Richard La Ruina
http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/how-to-sleep-with-a-girl-on-the-first-date-103451.html
she said she would
October 9, 2009 | 6 Comments
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How to date a girl in China
October 7, 2009 | 25 Comments
The 123 step to knock down the language barrier! This video can help you date a girl using Chinese in no time! Visit www.chinaontv.com for more!
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October 7, 2009 | 2 Comments
I feel sorry for attractive women. They get asked out so many times, but all their dates are the same: dinner, drinks, cinema. It must get old pretty quickly.
But this is an opportunity for some clever and creative guys out there, because if they can do some different stuff, it will be very attractive. It will also usually cost less! Where does a creative guy take a girl on a first date? Here’s my best first date ideas:
1. Activity-based dates
An activity based date is where you meet and do something pretty exciting. It is great fun for her, but afterwards you should also go for a drink or sit down somewhere so that you can connect with her. She’ll be much more open to it after a fun date. What are some examples of a good activity-based date?
-The fair.
-The games arcade. No not to play Tekken.
Do physical games like the dancing games, racing games, and if she is a bit tough, the punching games.
-Play a sport or game of table tennis, table football, darts, pool, badminton, or even trampolining.
-Go to a class together: Dancing (Salsa is good), pranayama, massage. If it is something you wanted to try already, even better.
-Fly a kite.
2. Nature-based date
Girls love animals and nature. Design a nature based date and it should be a memorable experience. Examples would be:
-Feeding the ducks and squirrels in the park.
-A boat trip up the river.
-The zoo (make sure she doesn’t morally object).
-The aquarium..
3. Interest-based date
If she has expressed an interest in a certain area like art, history, or foreign films, take her on a date that matches this interest.
4. Tourist Stuff
It’s amazing how many City-dwellers haven’t done the famous tourist stuff in their city. Casually find out if she has been to Buckingham Palace, the Tower of London, or whatever your local attraction is. Chances are neither of you have so it will make a great first date.
5. Buy a Local Events Guide
There are all kinds of cool events going on in big cities all the time. Things like food festivals, charity concerts, and street parties. Find one that sounds cool and go together.
By having an activity or something else as the focus of the date, it takes a lot of pressure off the interaction. By the time you sit down to talk, you will have a fun shared experience and she will already be more open to you. If you have taken a girl on a date like this, chances are she’ll be telling all her friends about the great time she had, and she’ll definitely be sold on seeing you again.
Richard La Ruina
http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/where-to-take-a-girl-on-a-first-date-102785.html
Five Top Tips for Dating Sexy Women Bliss!
October 7, 2009 | Leave a Comment
by Flora Green Here are some great first date tips for men to win your girl over. You need to add a warm personality and some confidence (we will add to that). Use those and these tips and you will do just great! 1. Plan for the first date. Your first date girl will want her feelings respected. There is no point pulling up at the local carvery with a vegetarian. Your first date will not go so well! Show them you care by planning well, asking a few questions before making grand plan. 2.
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