Black Men Dating White Women
Dear Jamie:
I’m sorry but I would like to challenge some of your Black male readers.I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-good-looking, educated and loving. I just don’t understand a lot of Black female’s attitudes about our relationship.
My man decided he wanted me because the pickings amongst Black women were slim to none. As he said they were too fat, too loud, too mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or carrying too much excess baggage. Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was constantly approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me and give me the world. If Black women are so up in arms about us being with their men, why don’t they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks when we’re out in public. I would like to hear from some Black men about why we are so appealing and coveted by them.
Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of us Charles Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford, Montell Williams, Quincy Jones, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte, Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius, Berry Gordy, Billy Blanks, Larry Fishburne, Wesley Snipes… I could go on and on. But, right now, I’m a little angry and that is why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don’t be mad with us White women because so many of your men want us. Get your acts together and learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I’m wrong, Black men, let me know. Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA
THE RESPONSE
Dear Jamie:
I would like to respond to the letter written by A Disgusted White Girl.Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black man. I graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in Atlanta, Georgia with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I have a good job at a major corporation and have recently purchased a house. So, I consider myself to be among the ranks of successful black men.I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to set the record straight of why black men date white women. Back in the day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated white women was because they were considered easy. The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the church. They were very strict about when they lost their virginity and who they lost it to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So, they turned to the white girls. Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date white women because they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men, because of insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are afraid that our woman will be more successful than us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control. I have talked to numerous black men and they continuously comment on how easy it is to control and walk over their white women. I just want to set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl to know that not all successful black men date white women.Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington, Michael Jordan, Morris Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth “Babyface” Edmonds, Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong black women And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and out of the spot light, who openly or secretly desire black women over white women. Ted Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few.I just don’t want a disgusted white girl to be misinformed Stop thinking that because you are white that you are some type of goddess. Remember, when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt, you were over in the caves of Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the head with clubs. Read your history! It was the black woman that taught you how to cook and season your food. It was the black woman that taught you how to raise your children. It was black women who were breast feeding and raising your babies during slavery.
It is the black woman that had to endure watching their fathers, husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in jail. Black women were born with two strikes against them: being black and being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise!
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oh here we go again …
oh here we go again with the stupidity, majority of americans are overweight, for crying out loud the number one killer in the u.s. is heart disease and its because fat will not put the double stacked cheese burgers down. With that said, i dont know what black women youve seen but overweight and obesity is even worse within the black population.
WTF, HERASSHOLENESS …
WTF, HERASSHOLENESS, i don’t know what black women you have been looking at, but ,a vast majority of my patients that i test for sleep apnea are obese, and white. There are just as many fat white people as there are black living in America! It all depends on what part of the country you live in, genetics(play a big role), and family eating habits. I also test alot of obese children, black and white! There are also just as many white dead beat dads as there are black, if not more,Heffa !
That’s bullshit, i …
That’s bullshit, i am a black woman who dates outside of the race, and I know many white women who WILL speak their mind, look how tiger’s wife isn’t taking HIS shit, not to mention the feisty white women I know personally!
lol…orange, cute
lol…orange, cute
right on sista! who …
right on sista! who gives a about color when it comes to dating cause at the in of the day we all the same race THE HUMAN RACE!
Wow, who hurt you? …
Wow, who hurt you? My mom always said that some hurt/wounded people seek to do the same…smh. Ignorance is the state in which one lacks knowledge, is unaware of something or CHOOSES TO SUBJECTIVLY IGNORE INFORMATION. Your view of black women is completely subjective. I think if you lived in a town full of gorgeous black women you would still bury your head in the sand and stick with your opinion.
Do you even know …
Do you even know the definition of ignorance idiot?
It has nothing to do with inorance. Black women are generally accepted as the ugliest people on the earth and most races thinkso.
I take thats as …
I take thats as insult black women are beautiful and a we know we are beautiful ,some can careless about wat yall saying how we are unattractive .Not everybody feel the same way.
If you think black …
If you think black women are unattractive then you are the most ignornant idiot on the face of this earth
Black women ARE …
Black women ARE unattractive. Black women are the ugliest people to walk the earth.
Most races – white, hispanic, asian etc. are not attracted to black women.
PS: My mother …
PS: My mother always taught me that everyone is an individual. She taught me to love all, and that: “Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord she is to be praised” (Proverbs). Those are the kinds of jewels I’m gonna pass on to my future children. You take it easy.
Aww, don’t change …
Aww, don’t change your statement to appease me. I know who I am, and that’s a stong, loving, sensative, compassionate, God loving, attractive black woman. We’ll just agree to disagree. I pray that one day you will not make gleaming generalizations about people, and that you learn to judge people for the content of their character, not the color of their skin..
right it isnt all …
right it isnt all the fried chicken thats putting extra fat on them bones lol the stats speak louder than your accussaions. u don’t have to believe any of it, i honestly dont care because one you don’t know me and two i don’t care to know you. and i never said all black people, just the majority as in over half. if it makes you feel any better about yourself, majority of americans as a whole are unattractive.
I’m a “sistah” and …
I’m a “sistah” and when the time comes I want a HEALTHY baby…I could care less of the skin tone. I love the fact that black people come in an aray of tones. Have you ever seen dark blacks??? Gorgeous skin.
That wasn’t the …
That wasn’t the only comment you made. Honestly you nor I know “the majority” of black people so the comment you made is presumptuous. Don’t be naive, other races love fried Chicken just as much as black people. It’s just that stereotype has stuck. That used to be something that others would try to use to humilate us with, but today it just shoes someone’s ignorance. I think you should spend some time expanding your horizons. I fear you may have some deep seeded issues with black folk.
lol as if majority …
lol as if majority of black people dont over munch on fried chicken. telling it like it is doesnt equate to being racist.
I so agree with you …
! I dont care what color somone is…race doesnt matter when it comes to datting..as long as you love them <3
I so agree with you
Excuse me…calm …
Excuse me…calm yourself hun. I don’t call everyone racist…just ppl who make statements that can be seen as racist (which you have done). You singled out women of a particular “race” as unatractive; you then proceeded to add insult to injury with your comment about “fried chicken”. Read those comments to other people without letting them know you wrote it…then ask them if it has a hint of bigotry or racism to it…besides, I didn’t call you racist…I sd you had a racist tone…smh.
you are in the dark …
you are in the dark if you really believe americans, especially african americans are not overweight/obese, this is a fact. there arent any studies arguing against it. it is my opinion that majority of black women are unattractive or at least the ghetto ones and clearly i’m not alone in my opinion as many men feel the same way. also just b/c someone doesnt see someone attractive doesnt mean theyre racist. grow up and stop calling everyone on the internet racist.
Statistics vary…. …
Statistics vary….depending on what study you look at. All that aside it still doesn’t answer for your saying that black women are unatractive, or your weird comment about eating because of black men. I really think you should take the time you waste judging others and do some self reflection. Idk it just seems you have a racist tone to your comments.
“66% the US …
“66% the US population is overweight or obese. These weight trends are even more pronounced among African Americans with 60% of African American men and 78% of African American women identified as overweight.”
Where do you live?? …
Where do you live??? I see plenty of fat, unatractive women (black, white, latin etc.). A lot of black women have curves and butt so instead of hating their shapely, womanly bodies they decide to embrace them. Your not a pyschologist…how dare you presume to diagonos why someone is heavier than someone else. Don’t be so hateful…the love you give is the love you’ll get…you reap what you so…that’s just God’s law…be careful.
all of yall sound …
all of yall sound so silly, grow the up dummies
Adios, Trailer …
Adios, Trailer Trash.
Why in the would I believe a thing a low life racist like you would say?
There are lies, lies and then there are statistics. If you have some facts, then you prove it.
good god look the …
good god look the shyt up if you dont believe african american women have the highest rate of being overweight or obese compared to other groups. now go take you and your fat white friends and go have a cook out our something, i’m done here.