Black Men and Women – Differing Dating Philosophies
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That pretty much …
That pretty much sums it up, Pinkk.
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Instead of trying …
Instead of trying to find the right person….BECOME THE RIGHT PERSON and most def keep God first! God bless ya’ll!!!
it sounds like you …
it sounds like you should be talking about men and women in general not just black men and women.
FULLY AGREE.
women …
FULLY AGREE.
women: expect us to change
men: take women as they are, if they meet our criteria then it’s more of a long-term thing, but if she is the way she is which doesn’t match our criteria then its not gonna work.
In my experience …
In my experience MEN are stagnant. They dont care about growth. When you hear a man complaing about “change” that shows his level of maturity. LIFE IS ABOUT CHANGE. You dont marry or partner a ROBOT.
So yeah… the …
So yeah… the whole going after the bad boy thing is nott so much about wanting him to change… but wanting the great EGO boost that results for them.
they want that powerful feeling for who they are…. men desire such ego boosts axs well, however it is based upon what we men DO rather than what we are.
that’s why men are always trying to DO things for women: buy her things, fix things for her around, be the best lover, etc… all for the woman to recogniae how great he is at a task.
“…by doing that …
“…by doing that your telling him that you just accepted him for what and who he is.”
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And at the end of the day, a man wants to be accepted for who he is.
It’s a funny thing, when a man marries a woman, he expected her to stay the same; he doesn’t want her to change. When a woman marries a man, she expects him to change.
I’ve always said that women seek these men to change them because their greates desire is to be able to say their “essence” was what changed the man.
as a black women …
as a black women one of the things that I have learned early is that you cant change men…so before I enter into a relationship I have the mind set of either taking them the way they are or letting it go.
I do see where one …
I do see where one of the main complaints about black women from black men is…”she changed. at first she was this and that and I loved her..and all the sudden she changed” and complaint about black men from black women is that “he is this and he is that and if only he would be this…this could work”…so men dont want the women to change but its not the same vice versa. good vid pink.
Everything you said …
Everything you said in this video is absolutely true. I think the reason why women tend to try to change the men they date is that they aren’t content with themselves and, instead of working to make themselves and accepting themselves the way they are, they try to change men into the image they want them to be. Nevertheless, I think, when wiomen accept themselves and the men they date,the good side and the bad side, relationships wouldn’t be so complicated for women.
For some reason, …
For some reason, women think they can change a man or a man is supposed to change, AFTER THE FACT.
What BW dont understand is, if you endulge a guy who isnt doing anything with his life….IE sleep with, by doing that your telling him that you just accepted him for what and who he is.
Then when they get pregnant there shocked and suprised that he doesnt automatically change and become responsible. When the guy wasnt respsonible to begin with.
When you met me, I …
When you met me, I changed all of that huh
I told her no what I was going to say was, Ive always been a one woman man, so it wasnt hard for me to get into a monogamous relationship with you.
Its all about boosting her own ego to change a man!!!!!
Good vid!!!
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Good vid!!!
This is exactly why the nice, responsible, stable guy is boring and unattractive to most women, because theres nothing about him that she can change, there no ego boost.
My wife and I were talking about the whole dating thing amongst men and women, I was telling her around the time we met I was trying to be a playa, thats not me so I was trying something new, But when I met you and before I could finish my thought, she eagerly and proudly interrupted me and said
Good video and my …
Good video and my observations are the same.
Its as simple as this — anyone can change but most people do not at the end of the day. and you are not going to change anybody. People only change when they are ready to change personally.
Most men know that you cannot turn a ho into a housewife but alot of bw dont really get the opposite.