A question regarding black men’s dislike of black women dating white men.?
I have noticed that on this site black women are a mixed bunch when it comes to dating white men, but black men seen to be completely against it.
Is it because;
The white man has stolen just about everything from black people including aspects of their culture, transforming it into white delight.
I have noticed white men do not date ghetto but tend to date educated, refined beautiful black women (of which there are plenty).
Is it this top end skimming that is getting on your nerves as the white man takes the best of the gene pool or is their something else.
EDIT i date all races but an educated, curvy black women is the closest i have seen to perfection in a women
EDIT just the ladies in question. ill put Whitney and Ziare in the No camp. if only we had Sugga B we would have the ghetto triad.
EDIT moi1990 just answer the question
training day. it may be true in Chicago. but in England just about every university educated black women with any ounce of fiss is dating or married to a white boy.
EDIT valerie i have seen your hatred through several questions and no they do not have a hidden agenda. they just like educated, beautiful black women.
EDIT i love the fact that you think that black women with education, career, prospects are all "self haters"
I date black girls and none of them talk about black men they generally talk about us
EDIT Candy princess i am glad you have arrived. everything you say just cuts to the heart of the matter. nice to see you on site
EDIT Jack strong all of all the people who have answered this question is not aimed at you. i have seen your answers and questions and you seen like a good person to me. its just there are so many haters on this site.
Regarding hating black men. The only person i insult is training day and thats cos he is a top boy and we share insults
Monti sorry you feel that way man. changes are happening and i am sure that within two or three generations black people in america with hold positions at every level.
Mysterio. You are no sell out lady. its your life and whatever makes you happy
EDIT Valerie be cool baby. i am the first to turn on white people who make ignorant racist remarks against black people. just as i am against black people who do the same.
Yea in a nutshell yes. Every time black people start a trend whites want to jump on the bandwagon. I am literally sick of them. Then now they want to take our women too? I mean what the f u c k? I cannot stand it when black women date white men.
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I am a black female and I cannot stand racist white men dating or getting close with black women…
Then again there are plenty of "refined beautiful black women" that have a lot of self hate issues….they tend to get into warm and fuzzy conversations with white men about how screwed up the black man is….
So its not just black men who feel that way….
I think its great if a black woman finds a nice non racist white guy that actually understands black issues…
I agree with irrational..Americans for some stupid reason thinks education "weeds" out racism and ignorance which couldnt be farther from the truth.
I agree with Valerie..
No matter how hard you try…racial tolerance..openness and understanding cannot be learned at school. It can be taught…but it cannot be learned….you either have it or you dont.
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How about White men who dislike White women dating Black men? It works both ways. I doubt that most Black men have a problem with Black women interacially dating but the ones that do probably have a sense of entitlement over women of their own race which lots of White men, as well as men of other races, have as well.
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it may be different in london where you live but in chicago, the white men date the ugliest black women. and these white guys be half decent looking too. i ithink they just like the skin color cuz i dont think they will date a white woman equivalent of the black women i see them with
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oh and on a side note i dont care who dates who. free world baby. do you let me do me
what is your question? all you stated was your opinion.
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i agree with zaire.
honestly, a lot probably feel that way because they know most white men, when it comes to interracial dating, have a hidden agenda. i don’t know how people can even deny that. an "ex" skinhead? i’m not buying it. you hate black men, but don’t hate black women? not buying that either….creepy things like that.
and i’ve seen your ignorance towards black men and your creepy, degrading questions about black women. and of course you wouldn’t notice all the white men who post here saying they’ll fxck black and puerto rican women, but would never consider them a girlfriend or marry them, right? seriously..whitney. i remember that too. once again, someone is being a hypocrite, monkey.
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Americas obsession with education is quite pitiful! I am drawn to a person’s soul, persona and wisdom. I hate it when ppl are too caught up in the physical world and are only attracted to ppl b/c of the qualities "the world" say is good(education, curviness ect…)
That is one of the reason I despise college(albeit i am going), and ppls views! A piece of paper does not determine how "educated" a person is, or how good their heart is!
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Is it just me or does this question scream STEREOTYPICAL?
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Also, what is your question? All I see is your idea on the subject.
idc if black women date white men i aint racist
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Who cares? This crap is borrriiinnngggg
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Yea in a nutshell yes. Every time black people start a trend whites want to jump on the bandwagon. I am literally sick of them. Then now they want to take our women too? I mean what the f u c k? I cannot stand it when black women date white men.
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but i guess i would be a sellout huh?
I dated a white guy. 8~( we broke up though
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Well, people are free to date whomever they want so I don’t understand why others must make a big issue just because some people choose to date outside of there race. We’re all human and we all bleed red and have feelings and emotions. Love knows no colour, the heart wants what the heart wants.
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I have not heard of Black men getting upset by this, but what I have seen very often, is Black WOMEN getting angry and even threatening when a black man dates a white or hispanic woman.
I have only twice in my life seen a black woman with a white or hispanic man.
I have been told that black women refuse to date outside their race.
And black men have been dating outside the race for years so i say, black women, stop hating on other races dating your men. You can have some of ours too !
I know you have found hispanics attractive so just go for it! And if you like milk , go ahead and steal that rich white man from those white woman like they do to you !
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I’ve answered this question but the other way around. I think it’s because black men (well black people) are taught growing up that white people or anyone believes that they are better than them. So they grow up with this overly proud attitude. When they see a white man dating a black girl, even though it shows his open mindedness, the black guys react out of jealousy. That’s all it is, pure jealousy. They can’t figure out personally why the girl would date the white guy and it frustrates them so they project their anger onto them, in the same racists fashion as the previous generations of white people. It’s role reversal…a kind of self-suppresion.
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Those white men often act black anyway.
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