Five Tips That Men Should Know for Writing an Outstanding Online Dating Profile
March 31, 2010 | Leave a Comment
When dating online, you must go through the process of writing a profile. Most questions are multiple choice, but there is always a section where you can pretty much write anything you want about yourself and about who you would like to date.
This section is very popular, and serious women who really want to find someone special in their lives do spend time reading it before contacting a prospect.
When dating online, it is very important to write a good essay about yourself and about who you are looking for. Those men who spend the time to come up with an essay that stands out from the crowd do get better results, more responses to their ads, and also more interesting women contacting them.
The key to getting women to make the first step toward contacting you online is to have an outstanding profile ad.
Here are five tips any man should follow to ensure the success of his online dating profile.
Have a good recent photo of yourself. Lots of women online do not even look at profiles or respond to ads that do not have photos. One reason for this is that women more than men are often solicited first by their admirers. That gives them the choice to respond to a lot of people. Why respond to a profile without a photo, an unknown, if you have three other messages in your in-box with photos?
Make sure the photo shows only you and is of good quality. Use a photo in which you can be seen clearly, one that makes you look your best. Most important, make sure it is recent and not a 10-year-old photo.
Find out who you are. Think about it. What kind of person are you? How do people perceive you? How do your friends describe you? Look at yourself through somebody else’s eyes. Ask your friends why they enjoy being your friends and how they perceive you. You might be surprised at their answers. You can use all this information when describing yourself in your profile essay.
Find out what you want. Do you want to get married and raise a family, or are you looking for a casual date at the moment? What kind of women do you like: extroverted or introverted? independent? professional? family-oriented or party-oriented? Take some time to figure this out before writing your profile. That will increase the quality of the women who reply to your ad, since only those who see themselves in your description will contact you. In return, you will be happier knowing that the prospect who is contacting you corresponds to what you want.
Be honest. This is one reason why you should be sure to put a recent picture on your profile. It is all about honesty. Don’t lie about your age, body type, status, or anything else. You don’t want to end up in a situation later where you have to clarify and justify one or several lies you put in your profile ad. That may just turn off your date and get you back to square one.
Be specific. Don’t be general when writing your profile. For example, don’t write: “I like to watch movies.” That does not say anything about you, and pretty much everyone likes to watch movies anyway. Instead, be more specific and creative.
You could, for example, write: “I am a fan of westerns, so I have seen almost all the old classic western movies featuring Clint Eastwood and John Wayne.” You see the difference? The first statement can apply to anyone, while the second reveals something about you (and is also more interesting to read).
You could also write: “Being a typical geek, a nerdy type of man, I sometimes slither up from the darkness of my basement to go watch science-fiction movies.” Since humor and creativity are often a huge turn-on for women, it is always good to laugh at yourself and be original when writing your profile essay.
Follow these five important tips when writing a profile and you will surely increase your chances of success when dating online.
David Roy
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Online Dating – Success Tips for Meeting Your Perfect Match Online
March 30, 2010 | Leave a Comment
We all know someone who has found his or her perfect match online. The first step in meeting your special someone is to find the online dating service that is best for you. Thee are many different sites out there, so be sure to do your research before joining one. Most sites charge a monthly fee and offer discounts if you sign up for several months at a time. Once you’ve chosen your site, the next step is to create an interesting profile to help you meet your perfect match.
It is important to be honest. Your online profile should describe the real you. Spend some time thinking about the things in life that are important to you and your relationships and what qualities you are looking for in someone else. The more honest you are with yourself, the greater your chances are for meeting your perfect match. Have some fun when writing your online dating profile and keep it upbeat and positive. It is helpful to add a photo to your profile. People will say that looks don’t matter, but the reality is, to most people they do. It’s helpful to be able to picture someone when you talk on the phone. And, once again, be honest with your photo. Make sure that it is current and it shows who you really are.
When you find someone you would like to meet, start by sending him or her a short email saying you enjoyed their profile and the two of you share some common interests. This email will be their first impression of you, so keep it upbeat and fun so they will want to respond. The social rules of online dating are different than traditional courting, so if you are a woman, don’t be afraid to make the first move and send an email to someone that peaks your interest. Taking the time to personalize your emails by mentioning something specific about their profile shows your genuine interest in them. If you don’t get a response, don’t take it personally. He or she probably wasn’t the right person for you. The person who has the potential to be your perfect match will reply.
Chat on the phone a few times before you meet and always meet in a public place. It is a good idea to let a friend know where you are going and about how long you think you will be and check in with your friend when you are leaving. Meeting for coffee or a drink is a great first date because you are not locked into a time frame and you can stay as little or as long as you like. By following these tips and trusting your gut instincts, your online dating experience could lead you to your perfect match.
chris wall
http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/online-dating-success-tips-for-meeting-your-perfect-match-online-727956.html
Dating Tips & Online Dating : How to Impress Your Crush
March 30, 2010 | 25 Comments
The best way to impress your crush is to simply be yourself, to avoid showing off and to be friendly. Learn how to engage a crush in conversation with advice from a dating coach in this free video on dating tips.
Expert: Donna Barnes
Contact: www.donnabarnes.com
Bio: Donna Barnes is a professional life coach, relationship expert, television host, author, columnist and producer based in New York City.
Filmmaker: Paul Muller
Duration : 0:1:5
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Job seekers know how frustrating it can be to spend hours a day on networking sites and job boards, endlessly submitting resumes with little or no response. Speed Dating for Jobs is a new concept for job seeking professionals, and hiring companies, combined with a traditional method for match-making. CBS 4 News segment on Speed Dating for Jobs. An event put on by Violet Nikolici Lowrey of A Plus Professional Resumes & Carlos Gil of JobsDirectUSA .
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Duration : 0:2:14
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This is a video about BLACK MEN who sit around on youtube and in general bashing the very ones they came from–BLACK WOMEN
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