Women: would you be less inclined or more inclined to date a guy who had had a vasectomy?
January 26, 2010 | 3 Comments
Would you prefer to date a guy who’d done the old snip-snip?
Or would his sterility make you disinterested in him?
I am leaning strongly towards a vasectomy, but also don’t want to completely, utterly obliterate my dating life.
I am not a lady, but le me tell you my experience.
First of all I announced I did not want children at about 15. I sought and obtained a vasectomy at the age of 21.
When I was 16 to about 25 the idea that I was sterile or wanted to be sterile was not an issue for dating at all. Most people had only recently leaned it was possible for heterosexuals to get AIDS. That being the case condoms were the dating standard. Having a vasectomy was a moot point if you planned to use condoms.
When I was in my late 20s almost nobody would date me unless they already had two or three children. I would say my vasectomy was a “dating train wreck”. You might say I would have had better success if I had kept my vasectomy a secret at that time.
After I reached my mid 30’s having had a vasectomy was a dating “plus”. But not for the reason you might think. You might think that they thought I would be a good date because they do not have to worry about pregnancy. No that was not the reason at all. Most ladies said, “You are a man that will never pressure me into making children (or more children)!”.
Now I am in my 40’s. My girlfriend says her friends say, “It is good that you found a man with no baggage!”.
To summarize:
16-25 – No difference at all
25-35 – Women were less inclined to date me
35 and up – Women were more inclined to date me.
how bad is it for a 19y guy to date a 14y girl?
January 26, 2010 | 8 Comments
I’m just about 19 and just curious about this. Usually I date girls older than me, but she seems nice and all(I actually thought she was 17-18 when I met her). If everything is kept legal, is that an ok thing to do, because I also know on average guys end up with girls years younger than them, but I also wouldn’t want to break social norms in dating someone unless I really liked them and knew them a lot.
You really want to think about this.. I guess it’s pretty sad that it’s wrong and everything. But,, I’m 14, and I wouldn’t be going out with a 19 yo ,, neverrr .coz it’s always better to go with people your own age. There’s more fun that way, more things to do… and there’s more chance if arguements and stuff when your dating someone younger. And it’s just.. Very Wrong lol.
good luck you seem a nice guy.
Is it okay to have racial preferences when dating like white women only wanting to date black men for example?
January 26, 2010 | 13 Comments
I remember hearing about how black women are angry that Tiger Woods only has affairs with white women.
I also hear white guys angry about the Kardashian sisters only dating Black men.
Is it considered racist to have these preferences? I guess it’s okay to do whatever one pleases, if it doesn’t affect anyone.
But what if the racial dating preferences is only limited to one type to the point where a signicant amount of people can’t find dates. – example; Black women can’t find husbands or White men can’t find dates.
If you have a preference for people of a certain race, I wouldn’t consider that racist. Having a preference doesn’t mean you won’t branch out or be open-minded. If you only date people of a certain race, then you might want to evaluate why. Like someone else said, if your answer to why you only date people of a certain race is anything like "because all other races are (negative characteristic)" then it’s racism.
Black women will be able to find husbands and white men will be able to find dates.
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