What do males really think of cougars? You know women over 40 dating young men in their 20’s ?
January 2, 2010 | 8 Comments
I recently ran into an old friend of mine who is her 40’s mind you she loooks quite young for her age about early 30’s. Her kids are older in their late teens’. She is dating someone who 29 he already has one daughter already a professional in the start of his career in the medical field. They have a lot in common but except for their ages. I to know what do men really think about older women is this a temporary relationship or could last longer?
I don’t recommend it. I’ve been on the receiving end of a cougar’s bite three times in my life and it has developed into nothing but needless horror. I’m 25. When I was 21 I was with a 40 year-old and when I was 24 I was with a 35 year-old. I won’t even go into the third one. The aforementioned is just this male’s opinion. My opinion is that if they are in their mid 30’s or in their 40’s and they are going after men that much younger, then they are single because of their own problems (i.e.: mentally unstable, etc.). Cougar’s are just trying to establish dominance and take advantage. Nothing more. I’m sorry for my cynicism but that is just how I feel based on my experience. It’s usually temporary, at least for me. Take care!
Why do you think BLACK WOMEN are dating OUTSIDE of their race so much these days?
January 2, 2010 | 21 Comments
Statistically, black women have been slow to date outside the black race. That is until recently. The sharpest increase in new interracial marriages/relationships is between black WOMEN and white men. (Black men still date white women in larger numbers than black women) But black women seem to be ditching black men.
I know none of us are experts, but why do YOU think black women are dating interracially so much these days?
Because… they want to or they can ..
SteveC
If you like this post, be sure to subscribe to my RSS feed!Please Help: Problems dating African-American guys?
January 2, 2010 | 9 Comments
I am a 22 African-American college woman. I know a sorry man comes in all races, colors, types, etc…however, culturally speaking I am greatly displeased by how some of these African-American guys in this generation are (I stress "African-American" because I am only referring to Black guys born and raised America). They treat Black women so horribly! And my experiences dating them, dealing with them were HELL. I have been rejected by them for being "too white" or "too weird", for instance.
Unlike some people may think, I KNOW there are good AA men in America–my father, brother, uncles and cousins are examples of good AA men. But as far as dating, I have been treated differently by African guys, Caribbean guys and other Black men from outside the US. I get so angry with AA men.
Too be honest it hurts me everyday that I feel this way about AA guys because I am 100% proud of my heritage and I don’t want to develop some sort of prejudice! That is not me! I just so confused.
To the first poster, I go to Michigan State University. I’m and English/Art major. Bad school to go to when you’re an artist. I should be in NYU or something. More art and culture! LOL. =)
To the second poster…I wasn’t talking about island guys. I was only talking about African-American guys in the U.S. LOL! Sorry for the confusion.
You are not alone in this. There was a time when African Americans, esp. AA men, were very motivated and driven to get a good education, find a good soul mate and build a great family. But unfortunately, these days, that is not mostly the case. That doesn’t mean that there aren’t any great AA men out there. There are many of them, but it is just bothersome that there are some who don’t even CARE anymore.
Have you ever considered that maybe the ONE that you are supposed to be with is not even AA. I know that you are very proud, as you should be, of your heritage, and that you’d like to find men who share the same proud heritage and background. But sometimes we just have to get out there and find that someone who is right for us, REGARDLESS OF THEIR COLOR OR CREED. I guess what I am trying to say is that find the love of your life and then their background and race will no longer be an issue if the two of you TRULY LOVE EACH OTHER.
How do I go on a date with a girl if I don’t have a car?
January 2, 2010 | 1 Comment
I am back home from college for the summer and am 20 years old. I want to start dating girls but don’t know what to do with out a car. I would like to ask them out but I couldn’t pick them up or drive them anywhere. It would be akward if I were like hey yea dinner and lets take the bus. What do you think? What can I do?
Be satisfied on what you have. Believe me, not having a car is not a problem. It will take your abilities to date a girl within your control.
I have a question about white women dating black men?
January 2, 2010 | 1 Comment
Why do a lot of white women who only date black men honestly think that they’re one of us?
You’d be amazed at the number of white women I’ve been with who when they see a white man/black woman couple are like "Wtf is she doin’ with his azz, she needs to dump that loser and find her a black man", I was like WTF!!!! o_O THIS GIRL HONESTLY BELIEVES THAT SHE IS BLACK, does she have some kind of mental disorder or something, ROTF, LMFAO!!!!!!
I date white women because they give you what ever you want and are very, very submissive, but when she goes dissin’ her own race, that just makes HER look bad in my book..
No thank you
