What do black women really think about dating white guys?
November 24, 2009 | 9 Comments
I am white, and I prefer dating black women, I think their attitudes are so sexy. They are also so freaky in bed. Do some of you sexy sisters prefer to date white men, if so, why?
I didn’t mean attitudes in a negative way, I meant their attitudes toward life in general.
I’m a black woman and I prefer to date white men. I can’t really explain why I prefer to date white men. I just know that I’m attracted to them very much so that’s what I tend to go after. I don’t question why I do I just go with the flow. Opposites attract so maybe this is why I prefer to date them. White men are so sexy to me!!!
For caucasian women dating african american men, are you angry at african american women?
November 24, 2009 | 11 Comments
It has been my experience that my african american male friends dating outside of their race often end up dating caucasian/latina women who have prejudiced beliefs about african american women. Example, a caucasian women dating a friend of mine stated that she believed white women were superior to african american women because they were more attractive and intelligent. Another stated that all african american men want from african american women was sex or the p word. These are just two of the many examples so thought i’d pose the question. How does a caucasian/spanish woman with racist views towards african american women end up dating an african american man?
No they are delusioned.
Is it normal to not want to date a guy in 8th grade?
November 24, 2009 | 6 Comments
All of my friends date guys and a lot of hot guys ask me out but I always say I’m not interested in dating anyone (now basically everyone knows that).
I like focusing on schoolwork not relationships for some reason and I think schoolwork is more important. I mean relationships at such a young age doesn’t exactly get you anywhere does it? But if you focus on your education you’ll get into a great college like Princeton and have a nice salary AND then date maybe a high class guy.
Now my friends think I’m weird. HELP
Kel, you are a rare gem. I noticed that all the answers given (so far) are supportive of your decision. Most of us only wish we would have had your kind of strength and determination. Usually, we don’t figure that out until much later after we are sitting on a bench watching our "ship" sail over the horizon with all our hopes and dreams. That is what gave rise to the famous quote: "I got so smart so late". WoW. You have clearly outclassed everyone I can think of, including myself. Hang in there Kel. Your story needs to be told. You have more of a gift than you may even be aware of. I see you as a feature star on the Ellen Degeneres or Oprah show. Congratulations to a brave person!
Is my desire to date any girl ridiculous?
November 24, 2009 | 5 Comments
I think it comes from the fact that no girl would date me, so I don’t care what girl would take me, just that one would.
Ooh, baby, don’t do it. Believe me, I would know. I wanted to date like literally ANY guy, but it only made me feel like a slut. Now, the thing is, honey, you need to STOP looking for a girl…let HER come to YOU. That’s what I did, and I’m currently in a relationship that has lasted over a year..believe me..all you need to do, is just relax. Don’t trip that you don’t have a girl…
why do black women have a problem with black men dating white women…?
November 24, 2009 | 8 Comments
Or a woman of any other race besides black?
Im a hispanic woman who is dating a black man.
Well there’s this black girl in my class who publicly said she wouldn’t vote for obama if he was married to a white woman. And today she saw me with my bf who is also black and completely went out of her way to be rude to us (long story)
Why is this such a bad problem. Its so scary for me to tell black women that im dating a black man!
I’m a latina myself. It bothers me as well because mostly my dating experiences were all black other then the latino men but anyways i look at it like this. Us latinas are exotic and sexy and of course one of a kind so i think that’s why them girls always got to say something. Intimidation i guess(lol) hun dont worry about, She just jealous and your exotic looking and shes just plain. Keep the head up and flaunt your shit hun:) that’s all we can do