Russian Brides for Dummies
October 29, 2009 | Leave a Comment
Avoiding the Pitfalls of Fraud
Most men agree that Russian women are some of the most attractive in the world, up there with the best of nations such as Brazil, Venezuela and Romania. But, is finding a beautiful Russian who is honest and legitimate, and who wishes to marry a Westerner a real option anymore? Fortunately, the answer to that question is still Yes. Finding those quality women, however, is an increasingly difficult task in today’s Internet marketplace.
The best option for finding a Russian bride is to travel to Russia, explore and travel the country, get to know the culture and feel for the language, and take care of business the old fasioned way – that’s right, walk right up and talk to her. If she doesn’t speak English, you’re on to the next. If traveling to Russia is out of the question, for financial or other reasons, finding a beautiful Russian bride is still possible, but requires additional caution.
Searching Google or Yahoo for Russian women will quickly uncover thousands of sites such as Date Russian Brides.com or Single Brides.com and many others. How do you know which is legit? You don’t. No dating site on the Internet is immune from fraud and international scam, not one. This knowledge alone can save the customer a lot of time, money and heartache.
The warning signs:
1. A woman who falls in love quickly, too quickly.
2. A woman with model like photos, like out of a magazine.
3. A woman who soon asks for money for visa or “emergencies”.
4. A woman who writes very general, almost form-like letters.
5. A woman who never speaks about herself or her family.
Now that you’re aware of the warning signs and you understand that fraud and scams from Eastern Europe are rapidly rising, you’re on the right track. But, what if the relationship progresses and you’re considering a serious committment? Get her checked out with a professional investigation from Wymoo. You’ve been talking with this woman for 6 months, and you trust her, you say. Too many victims have said the same, and still lost big. How does it happen? In short, the scammers are professionals.
More than ever… be skeptical and get her checked out!
Best of luck,
A. Hathaway
A. Hathaway
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How To Approach Women In 3 Easy Steps
October 29, 2009 | 6 Comments
In my article, “The Art of the Approach–to Life,”(available on http://www.000relationships.com/towomen/articles.php) I taught you the best ways to approach the very art of approaching: with attitude, and with choice. Decide what mindset you’re going to carry into your encounters with girls, and decide what kind of girls you actually want. Once you’ve figured out what type of women you want, it’s time to go for her. Let’s find out what are some great ways to approach girls, then how to get the first date.
First subject: the inevitable topic of pick-up lines. They just DON’T WORK. You know why? Because they’re predictable and ordinary, the exact things girls DON’T want from a guy. When you feed a standard pickup line to her, you’re communicating that you’re the same as every other guy you there. Not what you want. What WOMEN want are excitement, spontaneity, surprise.
They also want someone GENUINE. So when you’re talking to a girl, don’t look like you’re copying someone’s lines; talk like you just noticed her and, being confident, decided you want to pursue her.
* Be open and honest; don’t pretend to be someone you’re not.
* Use open body language-a relaxed, leaned-back body, and open arms and legs.
* Direct eye contact is also CRUCIAL; looking down or away while talking just doesn’t fly.
* Most of all, if you’re able to shock a chick with surprise-a crucial way of impressing and attracting a girl-then you’re really in for a treat. Or rather, she is.
Unfortunately, a lot of times you won’t be able to just go up to her; you’ll have to get through her group of friends, first. If you have some buddies with you, this is where the old “wingman approach” comes in handy. Make sure you and your buddy, or buddies, are on the same page as each other. Don’t go into a group with differing approaches-there’s nothing worse than one guy being cool and relaxed, and another being all braggadocio and stupid. Key your buddy in to how you want to approach.
Approach Techniques
A lot of guys ask me, “How do I just go up to a group and start talking?” Well, let me tell you what works from past experience:
1-Use Humor. I had a friend I did a schtick with that ALWAYS got us into the group. One of us would go to a girl in the group and be like, “Hey, I need your help on something. Do you think my friend Mike-or whatever your friend’s name is-is gay? I mean, look at his nice shirt, nice hair, nice skin. He’s gotta be gay!” Not only do girls laugh at this, but they feel they have to give their input. Nothing quite flatters like asking for advice.
2-Ask questions. As in the previous example, asking a group for their opinion on something-especially something funny-is a great way to get inside the group, then get to the girl you’re interested in. If you ask the question in a genuine way, and listen intently, the group of girls will feel flattered and excited. You’ve also given them a spark to an otherwise boring evening out. Joke about their answers, and ask more questions, and you should be in for a while.
3-Develop a secret, “inside” joke. Nothing works quite like having something personal between you and a group of people. An inside joke, or a secret handshake or sign, is a great way to do things. Try saying something to the group like, “Hey, ya know, we need a secret handshake or something.” Girls are all about making connections, so doing something that builds a strong foundation for friendship means guaranteed success.
But the all time best method: #4-Tell a story. This is what the guy I consider to be the original master of the art of approaching: Joseph Matthews, aka Thundercat, recommends, and it works not only for groups of girls but also for one girl in particular. He says, “When you first meet a girl, it is usually a good idea to have at least 3 openers and 3 stories memorized that you can talk to them about. Be sure that the openers and stories are good, open-ended, and interactive conversation pieces. Then, you’re going to STACK them.”
Good story-telling is definitely the best “in” to a group of girls. If you can make up a good story, like, “Hey, did you see that crazy guy in here who was dancing around in his underwear?”, or “Hey, have any of you ever heard of Celtic soul-gazing?”, then you should be in. You have to be convincing, and a good story-teller, but it’s a great way to open up the group to outsiders. Entertainment=Results.
Setting Up the First Date
Okay, so now you’re alone with your target, the girl you want to talk to. How do you set things up for another date? Joseph Matthews writes that no girl will go out with you on a first date without you first establishing TRUST. As he writes, “the quality of that number isn’t always the best. About 90% of the time, it’s a fake number the girl gave him just to get away from him, and the other 10% of the time, the girl isn’t interested enough to go out with him.”
You have to set a TEMPO in getting the phone number. Don’t rush. It’s important that you come off as cool, relaxed, and confident. Guys who have those qualities are in no hurry to get a phone number because they are CONFIDENT a girl will eventually give them his number.
It all begins with the basics–ABC: Always Be in Control:
* In this case, be in control of yourself by being relaxed, calm, and PATIENT.
* Don’t worry the whole time about getting her phone number; it’ll come if you act like you KNOW it will come.
* Remember to show an open body that suggests you’re relaxed, and confident.
* Keep your hands wide, your feet open.
* ALWAYS look a girl in the eye; if you don’t, you’ve already lost. Steady eye contact conveys confidence and control over the girl.
* Leaning back like you’ve got all the time in the world is also great; it will calm and relax her, too.
Just by doing these things, your girl will see that this is a guy she SHOULD give her phone number to. The ironic thing is, the less you show you care about seeing her again, the more likely SHE’LL care and give you her phone number, or suggest you meet up another time.
As Matthews writes in his free 6-day e-course, “Here’s the sequence I usually follow when getting the date:
1. Invite her out right then and there. Either I’ll ask her what she’s doing right now and if she wants to get a drink. If that’s not convenient, I’ll ask her if she wants to meet up later that night.
2. If she says “Yes” to meeting up later, I’ll then ask for her number. If she says “No,” I’ll still ask for her number because I like her and I want to see her again.
3. Finally, I’ll ask her when a good time to call is.
That simple 3-step process will get you a TON of dates.
Setting up the next meeting during the initial interaction is ideal. If you can’t do that, get her number and try to set it up later.”
Practical, wise advice that you can actually use, to get results, not frustration. That’s why I consider him the best pick-up artist out there. Other artists might have fancier techniques, but his actually make sense and work.
There are so many ways to approach girls. Few of them are exactly right and exactly wrong; a lot of it is subjective. Guess that’s why they call it the ART, not the science, of approach.
For more information on the art of approaching a girl, check out Joseph Matthews’ “Art of Approaching” website:
http://www.artofapproaching.com
James Brito, Relationship Expert
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Reasons Why Girls Date Older Men
October 29, 2009 | 15 Comments
Girls date older men all the time and society has really witnessed the cases increase. Dating older men for young girls comes with its own advantages and disadvantages. Many girls have opted for men who are older than them ignoring all the disadvantages that are present. This article seeks to explore the reasons why girls date older men. It is vital to mention that the trend or practice is not just rampant in modern settings but, in traditional settings as well. In the traditional setting, many girls are married of even without their consent. Their parents are involved in arranging the marriages and, the girls end up being together with older men. The main reason for this is financial gain. This example is a bit different although, there are girls in the traditional settings who voluntarily opt to be married to older men. In the modern setting, a young girl will have many reasons; the following is an overview of some of those reasons.
The main reasons why girls date older men are because of financial security and stability. Older guys will tend to have it made and, many will be blessed with some few investments and money. This is a lucrative thing and when girls realize that they can take advantage of this, they go for it. In other words, many young girls have become gold diggers. However, it is also valid to say that older men know exactly what the girls are after and therefore do not mind as they encourage the trend. After all, there is something in for them. Older guys like the excitement of young vibrant souls in their lives. The buzz keeps them on their toes as they seek to have great romantic getaways. Reasons why girls date older men are for emotional security also. Young men are a bit rough and mainly unstable when it comes to relationships. Older guys know what they want and are more decisive and mature. For this reason, young girls can depend on the older guys to provide this.
Therefore, there are girls who are genuinely in search of love and affection. Girls date older men to get back at their peers. This can be a revenge mission where everything is centered on teaching the people they really love a lesson. Older guys are mainly untouchable and respected and, this is a plan that mainly works when one is truly lucky. Another reason for dating older men by girls is for the purpose of getting ahead. The girls may want favors which are not necessarily money. Many young girls have gotten the deals and breakthroughs they were looking for, just because of dating older guys. Whatever your reason for dating the men is, remember one thing. Life might not give you fifth or sixth chances of true love and, when you are young, it is best to seek that real genuine love that will not waiver in the end; regardless of what age the man is. Love is about living life to the fullest and enjoying yourself with clean fun everyday.
Francis Githinji
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Tips for Dating Polish Men
October 28, 2009 | 3 Comments
Dating Polish men who are looking to win a girl need to have the tips to guide them. Polish girls are not that easy to convince and, the following are some insights into that dating Polish men should be doing to win the hearts of the girls. You have an advantage because you have grown up with the girls and know some of the things that would really make them tick. Sometimes, you are not sure of what might please them and this article will ensure that you get to know the keys to unlocking your destiny with the girls. First, you need to be on your best behavior. This means that you must be willing to date a girl at a time. There are Polish men who might tend to see two girls at once and this is a recipe for a disaster. Honesty is still the best policy, if you really want to win the hearts of the girls. You should know that over confidence will only drive you away from the girls. They like men who are self confident. Over confidence and pride are sisters and nothing can put off a girl more than this.
Dating Polish men must find a way to compromise. Look for a middle ground as you talk on various issues. All relationships really need this element and, you will find that when you compromise you will build even a stronger union. As a dating Polish man, you know better than to entice the girls with material things. It will not hurt to really think of something that is romantic. Go an extra mile to really organize some dinner or a good breakfast. Also, it is not just about what you do but more so what you say. Your words need to be enticing and even poetic. Spend time to really think of the girl you are hoping to date. You will need to know what they like and what they do not like. This way, you will be in a position to steer clear of any doubts as you get to really appreciate the girl for who she really is. Many Polish girls do not like guys who are chest thumbing and, you will need to deal with the issue of bragging effectively. Dating Polish men need to be on their toes if they need to establish lasting relationships in their lives.
Dating Polish men need to give their attention fully to the women in their lives. Many times, you might tend to focus on the television when you are there to spend sometime together. You need to have utmost respect that will win the hearts of the girls. When you really think about it, you will see the fruits of spending time with your girl. Love is something that really needs to be nurtured if you truly want to have it. Without a doubt the above tips will help you build true love and you will have the most important thing in your life. When you are true to yourself, you will realize that your effort was worth it because you have all the bliss you want. Start working now, if you want to connect with the right Irish girls.
Francis Githinji
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Tips for Successful Online Dating
October 28, 2009 | Leave a Comment
Online dating is becoming more and more mainstream, as people from all walks of life plug in and find their soul mate in cyberspace. Here are six tips to finding that special someone while still maintaining your privacy and safety online.
1.Avoid large, public chat rooms where anything can (and does!) take place. Some people frequent these areas just to see what they can get away with. Instead, focus on smaller, more targeted web sites or chat rooms that match your interests or lifestyle. There are many online dating sites that cater to specific hobbies and several offer free trial memberships.
2.When you find a chat room, dating site, or forum that matches your interest, introduce yourself with only as much information as you feel comfortable giving. Don’t plaster your phone number, address or any other personal information on the site. Wait until you meet someone with whom you truly click and have spoken to them for a while. Common sense and that gut feeling are great indicators for when something just doesn’t seem quite right.
3.Participate in the forum or chat room regularly. Keep it low-key until you start forming friendships with the regular members there. Be honest, and be yourself after all, being natural is what will endear you to a particular mate.
4.Keep your correspondence limited to e-mail and chat until you get to know the person well enough to feel comfortable sharing your phone number and talking for the first time. If you need a good icebreaker, start off the chat by talking about the forum or chat room where you met and any special interests that brought you two together.
5.If you decide to meet each other in person, choose a neutral, public place. You may even choose a town or city that’s not the same as the one where you live. Restaurants, parks, theatres and other public places where people gather often are a good place to start. Alternately, you could choose to attend a special event in your area together, perhaps a concert, festival or fair. Either way, let friends or family know where your going and who you’re going with, as well as what time you’ll be returning so they’ll know how and where to reach you.
6.If your interested in a few online matches that come your way, consider setting up a post office box and a free e-mail account to share information with each other. That way, if you come to find that you really don’t click with this person, you wont feel as if you’ve given any personal contact information away.
If you follow these six tips, chances are you’ll have a great time with your cyber date. Remember to be honest and be yourself! If you do, chances are that you’ll find that perfect special someone who enjoys you for who you are!
Ian
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